Would you stay married if your spouse was addicted to porn or felt you deserved punishment when you didn't give them what they need?

In this episode, we interview Steve and Viola Horne. They share the very vulnerable parts of their story, including the effect of sex addiction and domestic violence in their marriage. In our discussion, we get to highlight a very clear "Pursuer/Withdrawer" cycle, the core feelings and fears that make this cycle self-amplifying, and how it drives good people to do terrible things they never dreamed of ever doing.

Steve and Viola also share the surprising growth, clarity, and gifts of character that surfaced out of their pain.