In diplomatic life, there’s often a third presence in every relationship - the job. It doesn’t clock out at 5 p.m., it joins you at dinner, shapes your weekends, and sometimes even decides your plans for you. From last-minute crises to work dinners and representational housing, the boundaries between personal and professional life can blur until they almost disappear.

In this episode, we explore:

• How to navigate the constant presence of your partner’s work in your relationship
• What to do when official duties clash with personal plans
• How to manage feelings of frustration, disappointment, or invisibility
• Practical ways to set boundaries, communicate needs, and reconnect as a couple outside of the job
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This is about learning to live with it in a way that honours both partners, keeps connection alive, and protects your relationship from becoming a posting casualty.

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🎧 Connect with your hosts:

Anna – Instagram: @notjustaspouse | notjustaspouse.com | [email protected]

Emma – Instagram: @thezestielife | [email protected] | zestie.carrd.co