That's Where I'm At

EP 63: Your Money, Your Voice: How to Reclaim Control After Divorce with Rhonda Noordyk


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In this episode of "That's Where I'm At," host Laura talks with Rhonda, a financial coach and advocate for women navigating divorce. Once someone who avoided conflict, Rhonda transformed her communication skills through therapy and education, turning her personal challenges into a mission to help other women find their voice and financial confidence.

With over 17,000 hours of experience, 565 clients served, and $20 million secured for women, Rhonda brings both expertise and empathy to her work. A former financial advisor, she recognized that women facing divorce need more than advice—they need strategic and emotional support to rebuild their lives.

Laura and Rhonda explore the realities of financial abuse, lack of access to information, and the emotional toll of divorce. Rhonda also shares her CIA framework—Communication, Integrity, and Advocacy—to help women make informed decisions and achieve lasting financial independence.

Key Topics & Timestamps

Transition to Financial Industry (00:05:20) Rhonda discusses entering the financial industry and encountering both support and dysfunction.

Founding Women's Financial Wellness Center (00:06:40) Rhonda explains why she started her business and her holistic approach to financial coaching.

Challenging Gender Stereotypes in Finance (00:11:29) Laura and Rhonda discuss outdated views about women and money, and the importance of empowerment.

Strategies for Uncovering Hidden Assets (00:15:11) Rhonda shares investigative strategies for finding hidden assets and the importance of asking the right questions.

Manipulation in Divorce Settlements (00:20:50) Laura and Rhonda discuss manipulation, gaslighting, and the importance of advocating for fair settlements.

Real-Life Impact of Divorce on Lifestyle (00:24:19) Rhonda explains the 41% decrease in lifestyle post-divorce and how to plan for financial changes.

Encouraging Proactive Financial Conversations (00:30:29) Advice for women to start asking questions, taking inventory, and reviewing financial documents.

Respect and Integrity in Financial Services (00:36:33) Laura and Rhonda discuss the need for respect, integrity, and clear communication from financial professionals.

Powerful Quotes from the Episode

Rhonda, 'If I can help one woman improve her relationship with money, I've empowered her for a lifetime.'

Rhonda, 'We just have to crunch the numbers and see where stuff lands and give women a voice to be able to advocate for what they need.'

Rhonda, 'Don't just sign. That's probably my biggest advice. Don't just sign.'

Rhonda, 'You don't have to know everything. You just have to be willing to ask questions unapologetically.'

Rhonda, 'You create that safety, you create that trust, you know that somebody has your best interests at heart.'

RESOURCES:
  • COACH WITH LAURA: https://www.thatswhereimatpodcast.com/coachwithlaura
  • SELF WORTH RESET MINI COURSE: https://www.thatswhereimatpodcast.com/minicourse
  • YOU'RE NOT CRAZY ebook: GET IT HERE
  • MARRIED TO A "NICE" GUY: GETTING OVER NARCISSISTIC ABUSE: SHOP HERE
  • FOLLOW THE PODCAST: http://www.thatswhereimatpodcast.com
Connect with Rhonda
  • WEBSITE: https://wfwcdivorce.com/
  • Get immediate access to my FREE mini course. https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/S4a9NYjourlEQa70zVme

"Financial freedom begins the moment you find your voice."

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