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If you've ever believed that porn is really about sex, or that getting married will solve a porn problem, or that your young kids definitely haven't been exposed yet – you're not alone. These myths are everywhere in Christian circles, passed down through church lessons and well-meaning advice. But after eight years of working with hundreds of couples navigating porn addiction and betrayal, Katie and her husband Matt have heard it all. And in this episode, Katie is calling out the myths that are creating more shame, keeping people stuck, and preventing real healing.
Katie breaks down the most damaging misconceptions about porn use – from the belief that it makes someone a "bad person" to the idea that it can be fixed overnight with one good confession. You'll discover why porn isn't actually about sex at all (it's about emotional regulation), why assuming your kids haven't seen it is dangerous, and the uncomfortable truth about how common this struggle really is in your church and social circles. This episode isn't about pointing fingers or shaming anyone – it's about giving you the education and compassion you need to actually help someone you love who's struggling, or to find hope if you're the one dealing with this.
Free guide to taking the first step in healing:https://thechristianbetrayalcoach.com/firststep
Free training signup: https://thechristianbetrayalcoach.com/training-signup
Email for questions: [email protected]
By Katie Davis4.9
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If you've ever believed that porn is really about sex, or that getting married will solve a porn problem, or that your young kids definitely haven't been exposed yet – you're not alone. These myths are everywhere in Christian circles, passed down through church lessons and well-meaning advice. But after eight years of working with hundreds of couples navigating porn addiction and betrayal, Katie and her husband Matt have heard it all. And in this episode, Katie is calling out the myths that are creating more shame, keeping people stuck, and preventing real healing.
Katie breaks down the most damaging misconceptions about porn use – from the belief that it makes someone a "bad person" to the idea that it can be fixed overnight with one good confession. You'll discover why porn isn't actually about sex at all (it's about emotional regulation), why assuming your kids haven't seen it is dangerous, and the uncomfortable truth about how common this struggle really is in your church and social circles. This episode isn't about pointing fingers or shaming anyone – it's about giving you the education and compassion you need to actually help someone you love who's struggling, or to find hope if you're the one dealing with this.
Free guide to taking the first step in healing:https://thechristianbetrayalcoach.com/firststep
Free training signup: https://thechristianbetrayalcoach.com/training-signup
Email for questions: [email protected]

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