When did you first feel the pressure to be perfect? Did the pressure cause you to perform? It's a sneaky culprit because it can happen without you even recognizing the great takeover. Yes I am being a bit dramatic, but it's real. Maybe this comes from not really being firm enough in our identity, that we become what's expected of us. However, when we tire of performing, we become our best selves, because we become true to ourselves. Unapologetically be who God created you to be and surround yourself with the people who support the real you.