This episode is relevant to anyone in a long-term relationship (of any age!), but will be especially helpful for people over 40.

Belinda Wiley and I talk about her sex life at 62, planning sex, feeling the duty to have sex, women not knowing or caring about their pleasure, the belief that our bodies stop working as we get older, practices you can do with your partner, feeling appreciated, the importance of "being from a good family" and shame around sex when she grew up, never discussing her own body, penis and pussy massage, orgasm not being the goal..... and way, way more!