Everything happens for you. Yes it does! The light of your soul and your higher-self - is you. You have come here to heal and clear on the deepest soul level and illuminate, while in human form. So events that trigger your victim or other unhappy energies from within are planned by you. Not getting what you want and have worked for is material for you to work with... what is arising from within you? That's your old energy patterning to transform. Accept what is, unconditionally. Heal, grow, evolve. Enjoy <3