In this episode I finally spill the framework that completely changed my life (and the lives of almost every client I’ve worked with).

Here’s what I unpacked:

• Why I fell hard for the “Have-Do-Be” lie for years: fancy titles, big paychecks, the works… and still felt empty and burned out.
• The exact moment I realized I was faking confidence at the top — and how flipping to Be-Do-Have pulled me out of burnout for good.
• Deep dive into Be: How to audit and rewrite your “I am” statements.
• Deep dive into Do: The 3-step filter for aligned (not frantic) action + why identity-aligned micro-habits give you 300% better follow-through.
• Deep dive into Have: Why the money, body, relationships, and impact finally stick when they become the byproduct instead of the goal.

Bottom line: When you start with who you’re becoming, the doing gets easier and the having takes care of itself.

Your homework this week

1. Write 10 “I am ___” statements as the version of you who already has it all.
2. Pick ONE tiny action that proves that identity to your brain.
3. Watch what starts showing up.

Want to fast-track this?

If you’re tired of grinding for the next “have” only to feel like it’s never enough, let’s work together 1:1. In my private coaching we lock in your new identity, build the exact aligned actions, and watch the results pour in — without the burnout. Spots are limited, but if this episode hit home, send me a DM or head to https://stan.store/manifestbossbabe/p/book-the-call-that-ends-the-apologising and let’s talk about getting you living in full Be-Do-Have mode in the next 90 days.

Drop your biggest “aha” from this episode below — I read every single one.

See you in the next one — now go Be the person.

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