Episode Title: Stop Dimming Your Light, How to Brighten Your Light – The ND Edition (Gen X Women)

Host: Sonya Janisse

Date: Oct 9, 2025

Runtime: Approx. 25:00

Note: There is about a one to two minute period of silence where my headphones needed to be recharged... just keeping it human

Watch the vidoe clip here https://youtu.be/3diruf9vXkY

☕ Episode Summary: Your Light Is Not Broken

Are you a neurodivergent Gen X woman who feels utterly exhausted from constantly "performing normal"? Do you spend more energy masking than actually achieving? This episode is for the high-achieving woman who has spent decades using a dimmer switch on her own brilliance just to fit in.

Join host, Sonya Janisse, for a candid, coffee-side chat where we dive into why masking is dimming your potential and, more importantly, we give you three neuro-friendly, practical actions to start turning that light back up—without burning out. Your success doesn't lie in how well you mimic others; it lies in how fully you embrace yourself.

💡 Key Takeaways: The Brightness Blueprint

We covered three common traps that lead to dimming and three essential actions to take.

The Three Traps of Dimming (The Shadow Work):

The Burden of the Mask: The pure exhaustion of constantly performing "normal" for the neurotypical world, draining energy that could be used for brilliance.

Fear of Rejection: The generational trauma of being excluded or criticized for being "too much," which keeps us small.

Internalized Ableism: The inner critic that tells you your unique wiring is a flaw that needs to be "fixed" before you deserve to shine.

The Three Actions to Brighten Your Light (The Switch Flip):

Identify Your 10% Unmasking Space: Choose one low-stakes environment (a friend, your home office) where you commit to dropping your mask by just 10% to conserve energy.

Systemize the Stuff That Dims You: Externalize the administrative burden (keys, emails, bills) using tools, routines, and tech, freeing your brilliant brain for deep work. Your brain is not a good filing cabinet!

Declare Your Needs, Not Your Diagnosis: Advocate for your optimal working conditions by stating the need (e.g., "I need written communication for key items") instead of justifying it with a diagnosis.

📢 Call to Action: Unmask 10% This Week!

I want to see you shine! This week, choose one element of yourself you usually hide, and commit to unmasking it by 10% in your chosen safe space.

Take a screenshot of this episode and share it on Instagram stories.

Tell me: Where are you unmasking 10% this week?

Use the hashtag #NDBrightLife and tag me @sonyajanisse

I'll be sharing my favourite examples and cheering you on!

Connect with Sonya Janisse

Instagram: @Sonyajanisse

Website: www.sonyajanisse.com

Email:[email protected]

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