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đEpisode Summary
Hello, beautiful souls, and welcome back to âBeyond the Beliefâ.
Have you ever walked away from a conversationâperhaps with a neighbor, a colleague, or even a loved oneâand felt a sudden, inexplicable heaviness?
The interaction may have seemed pleasant on the surface, yet you left feeling âsludgy,â tired, or covered in an emotional residue that wasnât yours.
In this episode, we are journeying into the heart of Energetic Hygiene for everyday interactions (EH isnât just for intense, âbigâ moments)!
I share a recent channeled download from my Guides that completely shifted my perspective on these interactions. They introduced me to the concept of the âsloshâ or âsprayââthe inevitable spillover that happens when we interact with those who are navigating a lack of healing or porous boundaries.
Together, we explore the subtle mechanics of energy exchange. We discuss why accepting a favor (like a neighbor helping with picture frames) can sometimes be a hidden contract of energetic weight, and why our natural instinct to âfixâ can often keep us trapped.
đ⨠Most importantly, I share the âpermission slipâ you didnât know you needed: You do not have to host energy that does not belong to you.
We talk about moving into the seat of the Observer, the power of âshaking it offâ (just like nature intended), and using water to return to your luminous, sovereign self.
If you are ready to stop absorbing and start observing, this conversation is for you.
đWhy You Should Listen to This Episode
* The âSloshâ Revelation: Understanding that the heavy energy you feel from others is often a âsprayâ coming from their own overflowing cup of unhealed emotionsâand validation that it is not yours to carry.
* The Hidden Cost of Exchange: A deep dive into how even âniceâ interactions (like accepting help or a favor) can be a net-negative energy exchange if the other person lacks healthy boundaries or does not practice self-love.
* From Fixer to Observer: How to shift your role in relationships from trying to âfixâ the energy to simply witnessing it, allowing it to pass through you, and remaining in your own power.
* Practical Energetic Hygiene: Tangible tools to cleanse your field, including the power of water (showers/baths) and the visceral practice of physically âshaking offâ density.
* Sovereignty Over Guilt: The empowerment to politely decline interactions or exchanges that interrupt your peace, without the heavy burden of guilt.
đ Timestamps
00:00 Navigating Relationships and Energetic Connections
03:32 Understanding Energetic Hygiene and Sovereignty
06:11 Raising Your Vibrational Awareness of The Energetic âSpray or Sloshâ
07:54 Recognizing the Impact of Othersâ Energy
09:25 What to Do With the âSpray and Sloshâ
11:45 A Relationship Example: Your Neighbor
12:14 The Dynamics of Energy Exchange WITH Your Neighbor
15:01 What Does This Mean for Me / What Do I Do Next?
15:29 Observing and Releasing Energy
18:37 Practicing Energetic Hygiene in Daily Life (Expelling Energy)
21:56 An Invitation for Contemplation
đShow Notes
⨠Follow me now on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lavenderloveway/
⨠Follow me now on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lavender.loveway
đWhat is the Beyond the Belief Podcast?
Have you ever paused to truly contemplate the beliefs that shape our world, and perhaps even our very being? Many whisper their truths, or absorb the perspectives of others, yet rarely do we journey deeper. Here, weâre not just listening; weâre gently stepping beyond the surface of whatâs known, into the (often) mystical realms of understanding.
This space is a sanctuary for exploration, a place to absorb, listen, and learn with an open heart. Weâre shedding the heaviness of ârightâ and âwrong,â and ascending into the lightness of greater connection and expansive knowledge. Each episode is a precious opportunity to find those little gems of wisdom that help you re-weave your own tapestry of truth.
Letâs journey Beyond the Belief.
đâ¨Interested in my QHHT Practice?
As one of my foundational pillars, alongside the Beyond the Belief Podcast, I humbly guide you through the complete transformation and connection within. Learn more about my QHHT practice here: https://qhht.empoweredwithin.me
đ⨠If the content here at Life Journey: empowered has resonated with you, if a story sparked a moment of self-discovery, or if the shared wisdom illuminated your path, I welcome your kind support. Creating this space is a heartfelt endeavor, fueled by a desire to connect and empower. Your contribution, be it the cost of a tea đŤ or the joy of a new book đ, directly nourishes this work and allows me to continue sharing these soulful explorations: https://buy.stripe.com/8wM6pyda1aDY0kE5kk
By Lavender LovewayđEpisode Summary
Hello, beautiful souls, and welcome back to âBeyond the Beliefâ.
Have you ever walked away from a conversationâperhaps with a neighbor, a colleague, or even a loved oneâand felt a sudden, inexplicable heaviness?
The interaction may have seemed pleasant on the surface, yet you left feeling âsludgy,â tired, or covered in an emotional residue that wasnât yours.
In this episode, we are journeying into the heart of Energetic Hygiene for everyday interactions (EH isnât just for intense, âbigâ moments)!
I share a recent channeled download from my Guides that completely shifted my perspective on these interactions. They introduced me to the concept of the âsloshâ or âsprayââthe inevitable spillover that happens when we interact with those who are navigating a lack of healing or porous boundaries.
Together, we explore the subtle mechanics of energy exchange. We discuss why accepting a favor (like a neighbor helping with picture frames) can sometimes be a hidden contract of energetic weight, and why our natural instinct to âfixâ can often keep us trapped.
đ⨠Most importantly, I share the âpermission slipâ you didnât know you needed: You do not have to host energy that does not belong to you.
We talk about moving into the seat of the Observer, the power of âshaking it offâ (just like nature intended), and using water to return to your luminous, sovereign self.
If you are ready to stop absorbing and start observing, this conversation is for you.
đWhy You Should Listen to This Episode
* The âSloshâ Revelation: Understanding that the heavy energy you feel from others is often a âsprayâ coming from their own overflowing cup of unhealed emotionsâand validation that it is not yours to carry.
* The Hidden Cost of Exchange: A deep dive into how even âniceâ interactions (like accepting help or a favor) can be a net-negative energy exchange if the other person lacks healthy boundaries or does not practice self-love.
* From Fixer to Observer: How to shift your role in relationships from trying to âfixâ the energy to simply witnessing it, allowing it to pass through you, and remaining in your own power.
* Practical Energetic Hygiene: Tangible tools to cleanse your field, including the power of water (showers/baths) and the visceral practice of physically âshaking offâ density.
* Sovereignty Over Guilt: The empowerment to politely decline interactions or exchanges that interrupt your peace, without the heavy burden of guilt.
đ Timestamps
00:00 Navigating Relationships and Energetic Connections
03:32 Understanding Energetic Hygiene and Sovereignty
06:11 Raising Your Vibrational Awareness of The Energetic âSpray or Sloshâ
07:54 Recognizing the Impact of Othersâ Energy
09:25 What to Do With the âSpray and Sloshâ
11:45 A Relationship Example: Your Neighbor
12:14 The Dynamics of Energy Exchange WITH Your Neighbor
15:01 What Does This Mean for Me / What Do I Do Next?
15:29 Observing and Releasing Energy
18:37 Practicing Energetic Hygiene in Daily Life (Expelling Energy)
21:56 An Invitation for Contemplation
đShow Notes
⨠Follow me now on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lavenderloveway/
⨠Follow me now on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lavender.loveway
đWhat is the Beyond the Belief Podcast?
Have you ever paused to truly contemplate the beliefs that shape our world, and perhaps even our very being? Many whisper their truths, or absorb the perspectives of others, yet rarely do we journey deeper. Here, weâre not just listening; weâre gently stepping beyond the surface of whatâs known, into the (often) mystical realms of understanding.
This space is a sanctuary for exploration, a place to absorb, listen, and learn with an open heart. Weâre shedding the heaviness of ârightâ and âwrong,â and ascending into the lightness of greater connection and expansive knowledge. Each episode is a precious opportunity to find those little gems of wisdom that help you re-weave your own tapestry of truth.
Letâs journey Beyond the Belief.
đâ¨Interested in my QHHT Practice?
As one of my foundational pillars, alongside the Beyond the Belief Podcast, I humbly guide you through the complete transformation and connection within. Learn more about my QHHT practice here: https://qhht.empoweredwithin.me
đ⨠If the content here at Life Journey: empowered has resonated with you, if a story sparked a moment of self-discovery, or if the shared wisdom illuminated your path, I welcome your kind support. Creating this space is a heartfelt endeavor, fueled by a desire to connect and empower. Your contribution, be it the cost of a tea đŤ or the joy of a new book đ, directly nourishes this work and allows me to continue sharing these soulful explorations: https://buy.stripe.com/8wM6pyda1aDY0kE5kk