Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics

Explore With Curiosity : Attitudes For Kinkier Sex

05.17.2019 - By Pleasure MechanicsPlay

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If you want to have kinkier sex, you are going to want to build some foundational skills long before you ever pick up a toy. The skills of mindful sex – noticing your thoughts without judgment, staying present during the heights of arousal, paying attention to both the internal landscape and to another human’s subtle responses – are all crucial skills for stepping into new erotic terrain and having kinkier sex.

Kinky sex means different things to different people – but for most of us, it means stepping out of our comfort zones and exploring new erotic edges. To stay present and discover new pleasures at these edges, we must come with the right skills and attitudes to show up and explore with curiosity.

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View this post on Instagram Some of the most essential skills for kinkier sex are the fundamental human skills of paying attention, staying present while experiencing a charged moment, discerning your desire and communicating your truths. None of us are born with relational skills and for many of us we are unlearning broken or abusive patterns. So it is essential to get #practicing the skills of showing up fully, especially if you are craving more intensity or risk in your erotic life. What skills can we develop so kinkier play becomes a joyful daring adventure rather than a fearful risk? This week on the #podcast : bringing new attitudes to our erotic adventures. Link to full episode in bio. Cheers.

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