Becoming You

Facing the fear of Investing in Yourself


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When a potential client is scared to take that next step and invest in themselves, it has nothing to do with me or the program or the structure or the logistics of the program itself. There are very real fears inside that stop them from saying yes.

The more I confront the fear, the more I help my audience understand like what's getting in the way of maximizing their potentia and happiness. The more awareness and the more conversations we have around this, the less mystery there is, the less of a black box we create around it, and there is less fear.

To invest in yourself means that you're investing in your own potential. We are familiar with the traditional forms of investing in ourselves, like getting education or furthering our careers. We are applauded and encouraged to invest in ourselves in that way. But rather than these external investments with very tangible achievements like a degree, I'm focusing on the investment in inner work and investment in your own potential, your happiness, your confidence, and your inner power.

We are told time and time and time again that if we invest in the external, the internal will take care of, but it's actually the other way around.

It's when you take care of the internal, that the external takes care of itself.

Ultimately we are trying to answer an internal question by chasing after external things. And a lot of us, even when we get the external thing, it still doesn't fulfill the internal answer that we have.

These points are specific to that internal work, your emotional, mental and spiritual well being. It's doing the work of examining your old beliefs that are not currently helping you reach your potential. and breaking them down and reforming them into new beliefs that do help you reach your absolute maximum potential in this lifetime.

  1. Most women hesitate to invest in themselves because they believe they're not perfect enough and they believe that they need to be perfect so that they can get the perfect results.
  2. You are not sure that you will get the return on investment from investing in yourself
  3. You believe it works for others, but you don't believe it'll work for you.
  4. there is a part of you that believes you need to achieve whatever it is that you're working towards, your happiness, your success, fulfillment, finding your purpose, whatever it might be.
  5. You want happiness and success to drop down into your lap, but you don't want to get uncomfortable getting there.
  6. You are waiting for the perfect time.
  7. You believe that it's selfish to put all this money towards yourself.

The problem that needs to be solved is what's going on internally; those internal struggles and unhelpful stories cause external problems.

This is actually really good news! We don't need to solve each individual problem by itself. When we heal the relationships that we have within ourselves, we gain the clarity to take action and the results start showing up much faster.

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Becoming YouBy Visa Shanmugam

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