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Feeling Sexy Ep. 13: "Imagine That"—How Your Mind Shapes Your S*xual Confidence [RTH Episode #26]


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Hey friend! Did you know that Jesus designed your imagination? Yep—your vivid, playful, sometimes awkward, and even steamy imagination is His idea. In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie (Christian s*x therapist & s*x educators) explore Chapter 13 of their recent book "Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire." Today, it’s all about the sacred power of your mind when it comes to intimacy.

You weren’t created to live disjointed—body over here, spirit over there. You’re an full person. That means your s*xual experiences aren’t just physical—they’re emotional, spiritual, and deeply shaped by your brain.

💡 Enter: your imagination.

Modern neuroscience is catching up to what the psalmists and prophets knew all along: your thoughts have the power to shape your reality. And when it comes to s*xuality, how you think plays a big role in how you feel.

In this episode, Josh & Cassie unpack:

  • The theology behind imagination and s*xual connection
  • What “taking your thoughts captive” really means (hint: it’s not about shutting them down)
  • How the purity culture misused Scripture and left many of us s*xually disconnected
  • How you can begin to renew your mind and reconnect with desire—God’s way.

Key Takeaways:

  • Your imagination was designed by God and plays a key role in s*xual intimacy.
  • “Taking your thoughts captive” means aligning your mind with what’s true and good—not suppressing everything.
  • Purity culture often created shame instead of connection—but healing is possible.
  • You can retrain your brain and use imagination to strengthen desire, confidence, and closeness.

God created you as a whole person—body, mind, heart, and soul—and your imagination is part of that wholeness. When you invite Him into your inner world, even your thoughts become a sacred space for connection, renewal, and joy. Your brain isn’t the enemy. It’s one of your greatest allies in building intimacy that’s emotionally alive, spiritually grounded, and yes—physically amazing.

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The Road To HappinessBy Josh & Cassie Spurlock