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Feeling Sexy Ep. 15: "Tongues of Fire"—What Does the Bible Say about Or@l S*x? [RTH Episode #28]


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Hey friend! Let’s be honest—or@l s*x probably didn’t come up in Sunday school. But tucked right into the pages of God’s inspired love poetry (hello, Song of Songs) is a bold and beautiful picture of sensual, sacred pleasure.

In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie open up Chapter 15 of their book Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire and dive into a topic that often feels taboo in Christian circles: or@l s*x in marriage.

From Song of Songs 2:3—“I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste,”—biblical scholars have long seen this poetic metaphor as a nod to the joy of physical, or@l pleasure between husband and wife. That’s right, friend—it’s in the Bible. And it’s not shameful. It’s celebrated.

Josh and Cassie (Certified Christian S*x Therapist and s*x educators) are exploring:

  • How Scripture actually addresses sensuality and desire
  • How to talk to your spouse about exploring this part of your s*x life
  • Creating emotional safety, spiritual connection, and mutual joy in the process
  • Why or@l s*x can be a powerful, trust-building part of marital intimacy

They’ll also walk through the subtopics in Chapter 15 of the book, giving you a taste of what’s covered (pun fully intended 😉) and how to approach this conversation in a healthy, honoring, and playful way.

Key Takeaways:

  • Or@l s*x is not off-limits in Christian marriage—it’s celebrated in Scripture
  • Mutual pleasure, trust, and safety are the foundation of any intimate exploration
  • It’s okay to talk about what you’re curious about—and even more okay to enjoy it
  • God’s design for s*x is richer, freer, and more beautiful than we’ve been taught to believe

You don’t have to tiptoe around your desire. You don’t have to feel weird about wanting more. You’re allowed to explore, enjoy, and delight in the intimate gifts God designed for you and your spouse. So let’s break the silence, ditch the shame, and embrace a s*x life that’s sacred and satisfying.

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The Road To HappinessBy Josh & Cassie Spurlock