F*ck It Mothering

FIM 75: Changing the Culture Around Foster Care with Jen Schwytzer


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In this conversation, host Amanda Haro interviews Jen Schwytzer, a social worker turned foster mom life coach. 

They discuss Jen's personal journey into foster care after experiencing infertility, the challenges and rewards of being a foster parent, and the importance of self-care as a foster mom. 

Jen shares:

  • Her experiences with foster placements
  • The emotional roller coaster of the foster care system
  • The difficulties of building relationships with birth parents
  • The need for a supportive foster care community 
  • The difficulties of the government red tape in adoption, ultimately leading her to the decision to become a foster parent instead
  • They also touch on the need for a shift in the workplace culture to accommodate the time flexibility needed for parents. Jen shares her favorite guilty pleasure entertainment and her desire to say 'f*ck it' to the bureaucratic system of foster care.


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    Time Stamps:

    0:00 Intro

    5:40 Jen’s journey into foster care after infertility

    6:45 Adoption vs foster care

    9:47 Going from a 5 year old boy with special needs to 9 and 11 year old girls

    12:39 The challenges and rewards of foster parenting

    15:44 Navigating the sudden transitions in foster care

    19:01 Building a supportive foster care community

    22:30 The red tape in the foster care system

    25:34 Navigating relationships with birth parents

    29:18 The importance of self care as a foster mom

    32:56 The need for support and recognition for foster parents

    39:14 2 days notice for twin preemies

    43:16 Everything is figuroutable

    51:18 Lightening questions

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    F*ck It MotheringBy Amanda Haro