Dating today can feel confusing, exhausting, and honestly… discouraging. But according to dating coach Laurie Gerber, most people aren’t stuck—they’re just approaching love the wrong way.

In this episode of Scrubs to Stilettos, Laurie breaks down what’s actually keeping people single, why so many women settle (or stay in situationships), and how to shift your mindset to attract the kind of relationship you actually want.

From setting real standards to navigating dating apps with intention, this conversation is equal parts practical advice and tough love. If you’ve ever felt frustrated with modern dating—or like you keep attracting the wrong people—this episode will change how you approach love.

What We Cover:

-Why modern dating feels harder than ever

-The biggest mistakes people make when looking for love

-Situationships, ambiguity, and why people stay stuck

-How to set standards (and actually stick to them)

-The mindset shift that changes your entire dating life

-How to date with intention instead of burnout-Red flags vs. dealbreakers: what really matters

-Why “chemistry” can be misleading

-How to stop repeating the same dating patterns-Practical tools to find a healthy, lasting relationship

About Laurie Gerber: Laurie Gerber is a renowned dating and relationship coach known for her no-nonsense, radically honest approach to love. She helps individuals break old patterns, get clear on what they want, and create fulfilling, lasting relationships.

Follow Laurie: https://www.instagram.com/lauriegerber_coach/

Listen to Love At Any Age: https://lauriegerber.com/love-at-any-age

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