There’s a lot of talk these days about self-esteem — how to build it, protect it, and project it.

But what if the real power doesn’t start with self at all… what if it starts with God?

In this first episode of our Self-Worth Series, we’re diving deep into the difference between self-esteem and God-esteem — and why learning to see yourself through God’s eyes changes everything.

Because here’s the truth: you can read all the affirmations, repeat all the mantras, and still feel empty inside if your worth isn’t anchored in Him.

In this episode, Cheryl and Valerie open up about:

✨ Why “self-esteem” alone can’t heal what only God can restore

✨ How to stop chasing confidence and start walking in divine assurance

✨ Scriptures that reveal who you are in Christ — and why that’s the only identity that lasts

✨ Real talk about the inner battles we face as women trying to find balance, belonging, and belief in ourselves

This isn’t another motivational talk about loving yourself.

It’s an honest, Spirit-led conversation about what happens when you exchange self-worth for God-worth — and finally understand who you are, and Whose you are.

Whether you’re rebuilding your confidence, rediscovering your purpose, or just tired of measuring yourself against the world’s standards, this episode will remind you that:

💜 You are chosen.

💜 You are called.

💜 You are crafted by God for something extraordinary.

Welcome to Part One of the Self-Worth Series — where we trade self-esteem for God-esteem, and learn to live anchored in who He says we are.

🎧 Listen now on Substack, YouTube, Spotify, and Apple Podcasts.

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