The most important thing I can think of that would be helpful to you, if you're experiencing any kind of emotional discomfort or physical discomfort—anxiety, this anxious attachment concept of relationship attachment—if you've labeled yourself that way, if you're feeling achy physically, if you're just feeling emotionally up and down, if you find yourself thinking a lot about something, all of those are signs of deeply embedded grief.

In other words, it may not be what you think it is.

You may not be needing this guy to call you.

It could be something much deeper that's completely colored by deep unresolved grief.

Because grief is this gorgeous, amazing emotion, and I call it "emotion" with little quotes because it's actually a combination, a deep collection of every emotion imaginable.

If you’d like some personal help working with your grief or the grief of your man, come join me on Siren Island, The Official Rori Raye Community: