Sometimes people do some very unkind, mean things to each other. In this talk, we explore how they happen and, more importantly, how to prevent them from ever happening. We can have skills that keep our emotions "safe," and kindness is always the better path. 

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Do you ever wonder what it takes to lead a peaceful, happy life? Are you curious about the specific steps involved in a self-actualized, limitless life? Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Or are you just plain tired and want some help? We explore all these concerns and more every week on the Happiness Podcast, which has been downloaded over 10 million times since its inception. Happiness does not happen by chance, but because we take specific actions in our lives to create it. Dr. Robert Puff, Ph.D., author of 13 books, TV show host, Psychology Today blogger, and corporate trainer, has been studying the actions it takes to reach the highest levels of human achievement for decades, and he wants to share what he knows with you. Come and explore, along with millions of others from the Happiness Podcast, Dr. Puff books and Psychology Today blog, private clients and corporate workshop attendees, the specific steps to take so that you can soar in your life. To learn more, go to: http://www.HappinessPodcast.org/

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Mental Health

Inevitable Challenges Controllable Responses Life is full of curveballs – unexpected setbacks, difficult people, and moments that test our limits. While we can't control the challenges we face, we always have power over how we react. The "Inevitable Challenges, Controllable Responses" podcast explores this empowering idea. We'll delve into strategies for developing resilience, emotional intelligence, and a growth mindset to turn adversity into opportunities. Our goal is to help you shift from feeling like a victim of circumstance to becoming the conscious architect of your own responses. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 

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Mental Pain as Urgent as Physical Pain We're trained to recognize physical pain. A broken bone, a deep cut –these demand immediate attention. But what about the pain that isn't visible? The ache of depression, the sharp sting of anxiety, the relentless throb of unhealed trauma? We've been conditioned to ignore these wounds of the mind, to tell ourselves to "toughen up" or "just get over it." This needs to change. Mental pain is not a sign of weakness. It's a signal, just as vital as the alarm bells of physical injury. Our psychological struggles are our mind's desperate way of telling us that something is deeply wrong. Just like we wouldn't ignore a bleeding wound, we cannot ignore the cries of a wounded spirit. Dismissing emotional pain can lead to severe consequences - worsening mental health, strained relationships, and even the tragic potential of self-harm or suicide. By recognizing mental pain as the urgent call for help it truly is, we take the first step towards healing and creating healthier, more resilient lives. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 

#477 Mental Pain as Urgent as Physical Pain

The Discipline of Happiness (Why Joy Isn’t Accidental)  We often imagine happiness as a fleeting emotion, a stroke of luck that comes and goes. But what if true, sustained joy is something we cultivate, not something we stumble upon? "The Discipline of Happiness: Why Joy Isn't Accidental" explores the idea that happiness, like any skill, requires practice. It delves into the habits, mindsets, and intentional choices that foster an inner state of well-being. This isn't about chasing temporary highs or ignoring life's challenges. It's about developing a resilience of spirit that allows joy to flourish even amidst difficulty. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 

#476 The Discipline of Happiness (Why Joy Isn’t Accidental)

Every choice we make, no matter how seemingly insignificant, has the power to ripple through our lives and shape our future. It's easy to get caught up in the day-to-day and overlook the long-term consequences of our decisions. However, recognizing that each choice carries weight is an empowering first step towards building the kind of future you desire.   This guide explores the profound link between decision-making and personal destiny. By understanding how your choices influence your path, you can begin to make more conscious decisions aligned with your values and goals. Whether big or small, the choices you make today lay the foundation for your future. Learn to harness this power and intentionally steer your life towards a positive and fulfilling tomorrow.    New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 

#475 Every Choice Matters (How to Shape a Positive Future)

Being Present (Seeing the World with an Unconditioned Heart) Being present means shedding the filters of judgment, expectation, and reactivity that color our experience of the world. It's about witnessing each moment with the open curiosity of a child. Our hearts, often hardened by past hurts or future worries, become filters through which we perceive everything. An unconditioned heart is one that is soft, receptive, and free of these habitual judgments. When we see the world through this lens, we rediscover the beauty and wonder in the ordinary. The simple act of sunlight on a leaf, the sound of rain, or the curve of a stranger's smile can spark genuine appreciation without the need to analyze, categorize, or compare. Seeing the world with an unconditioned heart fosters a deep sense of connection. When we drop our preconceived notions, we find common threads of humanity in others. We notice shared joys, shared struggles, and recognize our place in the greater tapestry of life. This connection erodes the boundaries of self and other, dissolving feelings of isolation and fostering a profound sense of compassion. In this state of being, the world is not something we must conquer or analyze, but a place to participate in, a place to belong. New Happiness Podcast episode with Dr. Robert Puff, Newport Beach Psychologist 

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