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Healing After Betrayal: Understanding Infidelity, Trauma, and the Path to Forgiveness
In this transformative episode of Coached Soul, Dr. Steve Hudgins, licensed professional counselor, sits down with Mr. Jay, a certified betrayal trauma practitioner, for a raw and eye-opening conversation about healing after betrayal, infidelity, and emotional trauma.
Sharing both personal experience and professional insight, Mr. Jay opens up about his journey from sudden loss and panic attacks to guiding individuals and couples through the painful, confusing aftermath of relational betrayal. Together, he and Dr. Steve explore how childhood trauma, self-lies, and unprocessed wounds influence the way we show up in relationships.
You’ll learn:
This episode brings clarity to the chaos that betrayal creates, offering compassionate guidance for rebuilding your inner world before rebuilding relationships. Whether you’re navigating infidelity, struggling with forgiveness, or seeking emotional healing, this conversation offers the validation, direction, and hope you need.
🎧 Listen now and begin the journey toward understanding, self-compassion, and true emotional
Key Moments:
05:32 "Impact of Internalized Lies"
06:18 Healing Through Forgiveness Filters
09:50 Vote or Surrender Your Power
13:16 Infidelity and Unhealed Trauma
16:56 "Intuition Ignored, Betrayal Revealed"
25:59 Infidelity's Cycle of Justifications
26:58 Forgiveness and Letting Go
About the guest :
Mr. Jay spent years helping people and couples navigate tough emotional terrain, even coaching many through panic attacks. He considered himself knowledgeable, though he’d never actually felt a panic attack himself. Everything changed after losing a close friend - one day laughing together over the phone, and just four days later, saying goodbye at the graveside. Only days after that, Mr. Jay woke up gripped by his first-ever panic attack. In that moment, all his expertise felt different; finally, he truly understood what his clients battled each day. This experience deepened his empathy and transformed his work, proving that lived experience brings irreplaceable understanding.
How to connect Mr. Jay :
Website : https://mrjayrelationshipcoach.com/
Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/MrJayRelationshipCoach/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mrjayrelationshipcoach
Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCih0uc3lMndCsm4BhKE8mCw/videos
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/mrjayrelationshipcoach/
About Coached Soul™:
Coached Soul™ is an empowering podcast hosted by Dr. Steve Hudgins, a mental health professional and author, and co-hosted by Kenya Whaley, a transformational therapeutic coach. With a focus on self-improvement, Dr. Steve covers many topics, including mental health, relationships, education, and more. He fearlessly tackles sensitive subjects like depression and anxiety, creating a safe space for open conversations. They offer valuable insights and lessons through interviews with guests who have overcome significant challenges. Coached Soul is not just a podcast but a supportive community that inspires personal growth and provides the necessary resources for transformation. Their expertise and genuine approach make Coached Soul a must-listen for anyone seeking to improve their life.
For more details, visit https://coachedsoul.com/
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By Dr. Steve Hudgins, LPC-S, NCCIn this transformative episode of Coached Soul, Dr. Steve Hudgins, licensed professional counselor, sits down with Mr. Jay, a certified betrayal trauma practitioner, for a raw and eye-opening conversation about healing after betrayal, infidelity, and emotional trauma.
Sharing both personal experience and professional insight, Mr. Jay opens up about his journey from sudden loss and panic attacks to guiding individuals and couples through the painful, confusing aftermath of relational betrayal. Together, he and Dr. Steve explore how childhood trauma, self-lies, and unprocessed wounds influence the way we show up in relationships.
You’ll learn:
This episode brings clarity to the chaos that betrayal creates, offering compassionate guidance for rebuilding your inner world before rebuilding relationships. Whether you’re navigating infidelity, struggling with forgiveness, or seeking emotional healing, this conversation offers the validation, direction, and hope you need.
🎧 Listen now and begin the journey toward understanding, self-compassion, and true emotional
Key Moments:
05:32 "Impact of Internalized Lies"
06:18 Healing Through Forgiveness Filters
09:50 Vote or Surrender Your Power
13:16 Infidelity and Unhealed Trauma
16:56 "Intuition Ignored, Betrayal Revealed"
25:59 Infidelity's Cycle of Justifications
26:58 Forgiveness and Letting Go
About the guest :
Mr. Jay spent years helping people and couples navigate tough emotional terrain, even coaching many through panic attacks. He considered himself knowledgeable, though he’d never actually felt a panic attack himself. Everything changed after losing a close friend - one day laughing together over the phone, and just four days later, saying goodbye at the graveside. Only days after that, Mr. Jay woke up gripped by his first-ever panic attack. In that moment, all his expertise felt different; finally, he truly understood what his clients battled each day. This experience deepened his empathy and transformed his work, proving that lived experience brings irreplaceable understanding.
How to connect Mr. Jay :
Website : https://mrjayrelationshipcoach.com/
Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/MrJayRelationshipCoach/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mrjayrelationshipcoach
Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCih0uc3lMndCsm4BhKE8mCw/videos
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/mrjayrelationshipcoach/
About Coached Soul™:
Coached Soul™ is an empowering podcast hosted by Dr. Steve Hudgins, a mental health professional and author, and co-hosted by Kenya Whaley, a transformational therapeutic coach. With a focus on self-improvement, Dr. Steve covers many topics, including mental health, relationships, education, and more. He fearlessly tackles sensitive subjects like depression and anxiety, creating a safe space for open conversations. They offer valuable insights and lessons through interviews with guests who have overcome significant challenges. Coached Soul is not just a podcast but a supportive community that inspires personal growth and provides the necessary resources for transformation. Their expertise and genuine approach make Coached Soul a must-listen for anyone seeking to improve their life.
For more details, visit https://coachedsoul.com/