What does it take to not just survive an OCONUS move, but truly thrive while living overseas?

In this episode of MilSpouse in the House, host Christie Nix sits down with Mary Montoya, founder of The OCONUS Project, to talk about the unexpected challenges, personal growth, and deep sense of purpose that came from her family’s overseas assignment. From navigating culture shock to building community on base—and ultimately creating a platform to support other military spouses—Mary shares her story with honesty, warmth, and inspiration.

She opens up about the transition back to CONUS, what it felt like to "come home" changed, and how her time abroad reshaped her outlook on military life, motherhood, and mission.

Whether you're preparing for an overseas PCS or returning stateside, this conversation is packed with real talk, encouragement, and practical wisdom from a spouse who's lived it—and is now helping others do the same.