If you have ever been called a Drama Queen, this episode may help heal the sting of that label. But first, Jay and Lori tackle the issue of being flooded with bad memories right as you get close to forgiving him—even if your relationship has healed the broken trust.

TIMESTAMPS

0:00 Intro & Question

0:52 Forgiving unrepentance?

1:41 Guys, if someone is against you…

2:35 Solution: Do these things proactively

3:25 Staying near him?

4:18 Intrusive Thoughts

5:05 Like-minded women

6:05 “But she has to forgive me” (A Solution)

6:58 Why intrusive thoughts remain (a question to ask)

7:58 Unsure of your response?

8:32 Is he sure he can stay sober? (his childhood)

9:53 When peace can trigger us

11:49 The “Drama Queen” label

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https://thecouplecure.com/contact-me/ - Jay and Lori's website

https://pornpainhealed.com/contact-me/ - Lori's site for betrayed partners

https://porniskillingme.com/contact-me/ - Jay's site for porn addiction recovery

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