One grieving husband learned, too late, that his wife had quietly praised him to others—but never to him. Her constant complaints left him feeling unappreciated, despite her true feelings. Paul reminds us in Ephesians 5:4 that thankfulness—not bitterness or foolish talk—is fitting for believers. Yet gratitude is often the gift we give least, though it blesses both giver and receiver. A thankful heart reflects contentment with God and brings peace to others. If you want to be a blessing, start with thankfulness—because a truly thankful person is a blessing.