If you want to be a curse in your church, be quick to criticize, slow to listen, and convinced you alone know the truth. From coast to coast, pastors encounter such people—those who grill visitors, drive others away, and speak of “love” while showing none. Scripture calls us instead to submit to godly authority and be “ready to every good work” (Titus 3:1). A spirit of constant judgment tears down the body of Christ, while humble obedience and readiness to serve build it up. So ask yourself honestly: are you a blessing—or a burden—to the church?