Chastity means contentment with your sex and with the expression of it that God has providentially allowed you. Married men, your genitals are there not only to please God but also to pleasure your wife. Married women, your figure is there not only to please God but also to pleasure your husband. Chastity means that you don't use your sexuality on yourself, but for God and for your spouse. Because our culture has deliberately forgotten this, they don't know how to be chaste. Nor do many of us in the church. How can you be chaste? How can you learn to be content with your sexuality and the mode of expressing it that God has given to you?