291: How to Have Conversations That Matter with Celeste Headlee

Over the years, I have been asked numerous times to recommend books on helping to improve communication skills.

My go-to list is a short one but includes my favorite and most effective books on the topic.

There is now a new book and a new author topping that list for me.

Her name is Celeste Headlee and her book is called We Need to Talk: How to Have Conversations That Matter.

In it, Celeste outlines the strategies that have helped make her a better conversationalist and offers actionable steps that you too can take to improve your communication skills.

Learn more about the book that Publishers Weekly calls, “Powerful.”

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In today’s episode, I ask Celeste to share:

* How nearly everything we’ve been taught about how to listen is wrong

* Tips for being more present and mindful in your conversations

* Why it’s often necessary to “check your opinion at the door” 

* And lots more!

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Celeste’s Book

You can order We Need to Talk: How to Have Conversations That Matter right now!

Celeste in Action

Books Celeste Recommends

Loneliness: Human Nature and the Need for Social Connection by John T. Cacioppo

The Knowledge Illusion: Why We Never Think Alone by Steven Sloman and Philip Fernback

Check Out These Additional Resources

Visit Celeste’s website here for more about her and her work.

Be sure and grab your copy of Celeste’s book now.

Find out more about hiring Celeste to speak to your group.

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