In this podcast episode, Tami Gomez discusses the importance of decision making and the factors that influence our choices. She emphasizes the need to get into alignment before taking action and explores how external events can impact our alignment. Tami highlights the tendency to prioritize others' opinions and emotions over our own happiness and bliss. She introduces the concept of the 51% rule, which suggests valuing personal happiness just 1% above average can lead to significant shifts in life. Tami encourages listeners to pursue their passions and not be swayed by societal expectations. She emphasizes the importance of self-reflection, taking control of one's life, and overcoming the fear of others' opinions.

00:00 Introduction and the Importance of Alignment

01:23 The Impact of External Factors on Decision Making

02:29 Prioritizing Personal Happiness and Bliss

03:07 Considering Others' Opinions in Decision Making

05:02 The 51% Rule and Valuing Personal Happiness

06:07 Pursuing Careers and Passions

07:16 Regrets and Following Others' Opinions

08:28 Awareness of Mortality and Making the Most of Life

09:33 Getting into Alignment and Self-Reflection

10:18 Following Societal Expectations

11:12 External Validation and Grading Life

12:08 Taking Control of Your Own Life

13:14 Overcoming Fear of Others' Opinions

14:13 The Impact of Losing External Validation

15:02Learning to Navigate Life's Decisions

16:26Applying the 51% Rule in Decision Making

16:52Conclusion and Encouragement