Why You Feel Lonely

How Your Greatest Fear Is Affecting Your Relationships – Matthew Kelly – 60 Second Wisdom

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Video Transcript:

“You may be afraid of flying, spiders, heights, and snakes, but there is one fear that dominates the human experience. We all have it. It’s our greatest fear. It sabotages relationships. It produces existential loneliness.

We're afraid that if people really knew us, they wouldn't love us. That’s our greatest fear.

The real tragedy is that by pretending to be the person we think other people want us to be, we destroy our chances at really being loved. Because when someone does come along to say, “I love you” there’s a little voice in our head that says, “No you don’t. You love the person you think I am.” 

This is how people end up desperately lonely in a relationship. 

Hugh Prather observed, “Some people are going to like me and some won’t. So I might as well be myself, and then at least I’ll know that the people who like me, like me.””

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