The Colossians were tempted to give Jesus prominence but not preeminence—to include Him among other influences rather than enthrone Him as Lord. We often do the same when we make faith about what Jesus can do for us instead of living fully for Him. Jesus isn’t just part of the story; He’s the center of it all. True peace and purpose come when we surrender every part of our lives to His supremacy!

Here are some discussion questions to further guide your conversation:

• When have you experienced being “the best” at something—even for a short time? How did it feel when that moment passed?

• Why do you think people (including us) crave attention, validation, or success that fades so quickly?

• Read Colossians 1:15-20. What do these verses reveal about who Jesus is and what He has done for us? How is this good news for people who often feel like they’re not good enough or who struggle to stay in control?

• What’s the difference between giving Jesus prominence (importance) and giving Him preeminence (first place)? Which do you think better describes your life right now? How does remembering what He’s already done for you on the cross help move Him from “important” to “ultimate” in your life?

• Paul says Jesus “holds all things together.” How could believing that truth change the way you handle stress, anxiety, or uncertainty?

• What’s one area of your life where you’ve been trying to stay in control or earn your worth, and how could surrendering it to Jesus actually bring you more freedom and joy?

• How can this group pray that you would rest in who Jesus is and what He’s done, instead of striving to be enough on your own this week?