In this no-holds-barred solo episode of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club, Erica dives into one of the most overused (and misunderstood) labels in modern relationships—narcissism. She breaks down why calling your ex a narcissist might be doing more harm than good, how to tell the difference between a true narcissist and someone who's just acting like an asshole, and what to do if you're stuck co-parenting with one.

If you're navigating post-divorce chaos, dealing with a difficult ex, or wondering if you're co-parenting with a manipulative mastermind, this episode will give you a fresh (and probably unexpected) perspective.

🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways:

• 🔥 Narcissist vs. Asshole – Why labeling your ex as a narcissist when they’re just selfish can make things worse.

• 💡 True Narcissists Exist—But They’re Rare – The red flags that indicate a clinically narcissistic ex (and why most exes don’t qualify).

• 🛑 High-Conflict or Just Stuck? – How emotions, divorce dynamics, and pressure can turn even good people into difficult ones.

• 🌿 The Power of Space – Why stepping back instead of reacting can shift even the most frustrating dynamics.

• 🔄 Small Changes, Big Impact – How to slowly build trust, improve communication, and stop unnecessary battles.

• ✨ Test the Waters – The one thing you can do to determine if you’re dealing with an unchangeable narcissist or just a bitter ex.

  
  

We talk about:

• 00:00 Introduction 

• 01:29 Understanding Narcissism

• 03:27 Narcissist vs. Asshole

• 04:12 Real Narcissist Examples

• 07:08 Covert Narcissists

• 13:08 Dealing with an Asshole Ex

• 18:24 Creating Space and Setting Boundaries

• 25:23 Rebuilding Trust and Moving Forward

• 26:53 Conclusion and Final Advice

  
  

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