It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

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A conversational style podcast by The Bachelor Australia Season 7 Runner up Abbie Chatfield, aiming to be just like having a thoughtful conversation while having a wine with your friends. Abbie and her guests will answer listener questions, doing the best to give her advice about dating, friendships, sex and all other facets of life and then do a deep dive into a topic of interest. Guests will include personal friends of Abbie's, people she admires and experts in fields that she thinks we could all learn from.
For Q&A questions, topic suggestions or corrections email Abbie at [email protected] Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram

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10.27.2020

Abbie rants about a man in her DMs who told her that she would demand respect if she wasnt so vulgar and dressed more modestlly, to which she responds "fuck off". She then talks about the "cute but psycho" idea ...

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield episodes:

10.27.2020 33: BIG TITTIES EQUALS WHORE (Solo) Abbie rants about a man in her DMs who told her that she would demand respect if she wasnt so vulgar and dressed more modestlly, to which she responds "fuck off". She then talks about the "cute but psycho" idea ...
10.21.2020 32: LIKE GROCERIES (Solo) This week's episode is a little late, sorry! Abbie rants about a controversial Brownlow dress, tells you how to eat ass and then answer a question about forgiving yourself. Weird mix, but just go with it. See acast.com/privacy for privacy ...
10.17.2020 IT'S A LITTLE EP1: ABBIE GETS HER NATAL CHART READ w/ Jaz Borri The first of mini episodes (now called IT'S A LITTLE) that will be extras from the usual Tuesday installment, or just random thoughts that Abbie has. Today Abbie gets her birth chart read so you can see what a full ...
10.12.2020 31: TWO GEMINIS JUMP ON A ZOOM CALL w/ Jaz Borri This week Abbie has a chat with Astrologer Jaz Borri! Jaz Borri is an empowerment astrologer & self-discovery mentor from Sydney, Australia. Using modern mysticism, Jaz is passionately in service to the 21st century woman who feels just as she ...
10.05.2020 30: NARCISSISTIC BIN DAY! Abbie reads your stories you have emailed in about your wild exes, including lots of cheating and drama. She finishes the episode off with a little advice on how to get over your own awful ex. It's A Lot now ...
09.28.2020 29: Break EBTIL has revoked his consent to have this episode continued. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
09.22.2020 28: EBTIL (Part 1) It's the highly anticipated messy, dramatic episode about Abbie's ex, lovingly known was Ex-Boyfriend That I Love or EBTIL (as members of the now archived FB group called him) Abbie is joined by Georgie who you have met before, who ...
09.14.2020 27: ABBIE CRIES ABOUT HER VULVA w/ Ellie from Comfortable In My Skin TW: In this episode we talk a lot about vulvas, being two cis women who have only slept with cis women, our language defaulted to binary and cis language. I just wanted to say that we both acknowledge that not ...
09.07.2020 26: HABITUAL NUTTER w/ Flex Mami ( Lillian Ahenkan) HABITUAL NUTTER This week Abbie is joined by Lillian Ahenkan akaFLEX MAMI!!!! Flex is an absolutely glorious human who has made critical thinking cool again with her card game REFLEX along with her incredible IG stories full of reddit threads, ...
08.31.2020 LOCKDOWN DAY 13: You don't need to be in a relationship!! Nice guys dont finish last! You probably just have attachment issues! Abbie dissects a tweet that says the following: I'm the kind of girl that says I want a boyfriend but any time a guy tries to get to know me I'm like "nah not you"??? I'm the reason I'm fucking ...
08.29.2020 LOCKDOWN DAY 11: How to deal with slut shaming from an ex Grrr!! This one is full of anger. A listener DMd Abbie a message asking how to deal with her D-Bag of an ex who is attempting to slut shame her. Gross. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
08.28.2020 LOCKDOWN DAY 10: GHOSTING, GLUGGING AND GIRLS It's been a couple of days because Abbie needed a mental health break. Today Abbie rants about anti-vaxxers and conspiracy theorists in a very niche facebook group she is in. She gives advice on how to deal with being ghosted, ...
08.24.2020 LOCKDOWN DAY 6: Breaking a Dry Spell Abbie talks about the anxiety of that first sexual encounter after a dry spell, and how to ease some of that anxiety! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
08.23.2020 LOCKDOWN DAY 4&5: Perfomative actions become habits Abbie had a break on Saturday so is giving you a 20 minute lockdown episode. She talks about femme men, performative actions that become habits and what that means for the body positivity movement being co-opted by thin white women ...
08.21.2020 LOCKDOWN DAY 3: Sexting and Nude Etiquette Abbie has a laugh about a reply to a nude she received, then answers a question about sexting and sending nudes. Here is the link to Abbie's PopSugar article on sexting! https://www.popsugar.com.au/love/how-to-sext-someone-47331817 See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
08.20.2020 LOCKDOWN DAY 2: Why WAP is a feminist masterpiece Abbie discusses WAP by Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion and all of the reasons why she loves the banger. If you don't agree, check your internalised misogyny. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
08.19.2020 IT'S A LOCKDOWN DAY 1: Quarantine Intel Abbie is stuck in Quarantine due to COVID-19 border restrictions in Queensland and because of this, she is going to be uploading daily mini episodes to keep herself sane. Email [email protected] for questions or topic suggestions See acast.com/privacy for privacy ...
08.17.2020 25: BETTER F*CKERY w/ Simon, Viola and a special guest This episode is a rollercoaster of juicy relationship head scratchers starting with Abbie chatting to her gorgeous friends Viola and Simon, which then swiftly turns into a “Tell All” Interview conducted by Simon on his friend's sticky relationship status. Simon's ...
08.11.2020 24: HOT IN A "NEWTOWN" WAY w/ Danny Clayton This week is a little late, and a little different. Abbie had a date, her first date since her most recent break up. After Abbie being turned down multiple times on a drunken night, Danny Clayton finally agreed to a ...
08.03.2020 23: STOP USING WOMEN AS THERAPY PLS w/ Soaliha Iqbal TRIGGER WARNING: Emotional Labor I wonder which woman you are using for free Therapy today ? This week Abbie finally gets a chance to sit down and chat with Soaliha, who you probably know from the podcast group. Soaliha is ...
07.28.2020 22: GLUG IT UP (Solo Episode) Abbie talks about being happy while being single, answers a question about a failed threesome, gives some advice on how to not fear that everyone hates you and describes in detail how to give a blow job (SORRY MUM AND ...
07.20.2020 21: RED FLAGS! w/ The Bodzilla This week abbie speaks to April, also known as “The Bodzilla” all about flags in relationships. Not all flags have to be the Colour RED, Abbie and April breakdown the Red, Yellow and evn green flags to navigate dating. Discussing ...
07.13.2020 20: BIP, NEW NOSE AND BANTS (Solo Episode) TW: Suicide, mental health, abortion This week Abbie talks about her preparation for BIP and how she feels about being on reality TV once again. She then answers questions regarding her abortion, how to keep a FWB situation fulfilling for ...
07.06.2020 19: GET YOUR SKIN CHECKED w/ Gina Savage This week, Abbie is joined by the amazing Gina Savage. Gina discusses her ongoing battle with Melanoma and the incredible work she is doing to raise awareness and fight the illness. Gina shares her inspiring message around her purpose and ...
06.30.2020 18: A PAGEANT QUEEN? ON A FEMINIST PODCAST? w/ Susana Danielle Downes In this weeks episode, Abbie is joined by amazing listener of the show, Susana Danielle Downes. This is the first installment of a new kind of episode that gives you, the listener the opportunity to share Abbie’s platform. Susana is ...
06.22.2020 17: PETITION FOR GLO AND SUNNY TO START A PODCAST w/ GLO and Sunny Adcock In this weeks episode, Abbie is joined by the incredible Sunny and Glo. In this chat they speak on their experience as Black Womeb of Colour and their thoughts on topics such as performative activism, the expectation that has been ...
06.16.2020 16: VULVA CHAT (Solo Episode) A special message of love to Abbie’s wonderful grandmother who was sadly lost this past week. We love you Grandma, we will always love you. TRIGGER WARNING: This episode sexual health, Mental health This week is an open, honest, sit ...
06.08.2020 15: FAT SHAMING w/ Demi Lynch TRIGGER WARNING: Fat Shaming, Disordered Eating, Anxiety and Depression, Body Dysmorphia Usually Abbie gives a little intro but this week she was sick, and could barely talk! So we get right into it. This week Abbie is joined by the ...
06.01.2020 14: MADONNA/WH*RE COMPLEX w/ Phoebe Thompson TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses mental health and abusive relationships A playful episode with Phoebe Thompson to discuss navigating the world as fierce and proud to be, sexual woman. Phoebe opens up about her physical appearance, the male gaze, her ...
05.25.2020 13: ENDOMETRIOSIS AND PCOS w/ Erin Barnett TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses mental health, PCOS and Endometriosis Abbie is joined by the incredible woman that is Erin Barnett. Erin openly and candidly discusses her journey with PCOS and Endometriosis and sheds some light on what it is ...
05.18.2020 12: DEVIL'S AVOCADO w/ Abbie's Mates TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses mental health, suicide and abortion Abbie is joined by her closest friends to answer your questions in this weeks episode. Join them for an honest, laid back chat with a few wines. Deep dive into ...
05.11.2020 11: STIs, BREAK UPS, PLANDEMIC & PATRIARCHY (Solo Episode) Abbie rants about everything this week. Things get ugly. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
05.04.2020 10: SEX PARTIES, OPEN RELATIONSHIPS AND FREEDOM w/ Clit Talk Abbie is joined by the three hosts of Clit Talk (@clittalkshow) (https://clittalkshow.com/about) Sugar, Katie and Lindsey. They talk about period sex, the changes in their relationships that have come from the increased lockdown laws in Los Angeles at the time ...
04.27.2020 09: TWO RAYS OF SUNSHINE w/ KIC Founders Laura Henshaw and Steph Claire Smith (Miller) This week Abbie is joined by two powerhouses in fitness and instagram success; LAURA HENSHAW and STEPH CLAIRE SMITH. Together they own the fitness empire Keep It Cleaner and host their own podcast KIC Pod. Abbie, Steph and Laura talk ...
04.20.2020 08: THE AUDACITY (Solo) This is a solo episode is Abbie talking about instances of [redacted] having THE AUDACITY Follow Abbie on Instagram (@abbiechatfield) Follow the podcast on instagram (@itsalotpod) Email the podcast at [email protected] with any questions, comments or corrections! See acast.com/privacy for ...
04.13.2020 07: HUMOUR IS A COPING MECHANISM w/ Phoebe Parsons TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses mental health and suicide. We're back! After another out of date COVID-19 chat, Abbie and PHOEBE PARSONS (Host of Confessions of a Trainwreck) answer some listener questions about self care v kicking goals, dating someone ...
04.06.2020 06: FEMINIST QUEEN w/ Clementine Ford Abbie gets to interview someone she greatly admires and fan girls along the way, CLEMENTINE FORD. The author of two ground breaking books, BOYS WILL BE BOYS and FIGHT LIKE A GIRL and all around badass, Clem is someone that ...
03.30.2020 05: LITERALLY JUST ABBIE The first solo episode for Abbie, she gives advice on coping machanisms to use during COVID-19 and also other miscellaneous Q&As.; Find It's a Lot on insatrgam at @itsalotpod and email your questions into [email protected] See acast.com/privacy for privacy and ...
03.23.2020 04: ENDLESS COMPLIMENTS FOR ZARA AND MICHELLE w/ Zara McDonald and Michelle Andrews of Shameless Podcast Episode 4! We made it despite feeling like the world is ending! Abbie starts off crying in the intro talking about the virus that she said she DID NOT want to talk about, but then makes up for it by ...
03.19.2020 03: THE RULES OF FRENCH DATING w/ Alienor Chevallier Bonus quarantine ep! Episode 3! Woohoo! In this episode Abbie is joined by the stunning french goddess and host of Honestly the Podcast (@honestly.the.podcast) ALIENOR CHEVALLIER (@broctoprod) to discuss the Rules of French Dating. After Abbie and Alienor had some ...
03.16.2020 02: #YOUGOTTHESHOT CHALLENGE w/ Phoebe Parsons TW: Eating Disorder, Anxiety, Depression, Suicide Hello! In this episode if It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield, Abs is joined by host of Confessions of a Trainwreck Phoebe Parsons (@phoebeacp). Abbie and Phoebe have some body positivity homework for you ...
03.09.2020 01: HAVE YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT TOO w/ Gab Steele It's here! The first episode of It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield. Thank you for tuning in! On this episode, Abbie (@abbiechatfield) is joined by the brilliant, hilarious, stunning woman that is Gab Steele (@gabsteele). Gab is a full time ...
02.29.2020 It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield Trailer It's here! Well, almost. This is a little trailer for It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield. Abbie gives a summary of what to expect with the podcast and promises you Episode 1 to launch on 10th of March 2020! Subscribe ...