It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

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Join reality TV queen, entrepreneur and chronic over-sharer, Abbie Chatfield each week as she tackles the deep stuff - from abandonment issues and mental health to important social discourse around feminism and politics.
Plus there’s a reliable dose of sex tips, bad dating stories, and interviews with funny, clever, and wickedly cool people. For guest and topic suggestions or to submit your own Nightmare Fuel email [email protected]. Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .

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JEREMY FRANCO'S NMF: "Are Y...

09.28.2023

Have you ever overmbellished a fact about yourself for someone you were crushing HARD on? Well, TikTok star Jeremy Franco may have taken things a bit too far for one hot man he saw at a pride party 4 months ...

It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield episodes:

09.28.2023 JEREMY FRANCO'S NMF: "Are You Front Or Bottom?" Have you ever overmbellished a fact about yourself for someone you were crushing HARD on? Well, TikTok star Jeremy Franco may have taken things a bit too far for one hot man he saw at a pride party 4 months ...
09.26.2023 CULT SURVIVOR LIZ PART 2: "It's Scary How Cunning They Are" Trigger warning: This episode is a heavy one. Themes include eating disorders, sexual assault, rape, and coercive control. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please give this episode a miss or seek help by visiting Lifeline's ...
09.25.2023 CULT SURVIVOR LIZ PART 1: "It's Scary How Cunning They Are" Trigger warning: This episode is a heavy one. Themes include eating disorders, sexual assault, rape, and coercive control. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please give this episode a miss or seek help by visiting Lifeline's ...
09.21.2023 SEAN SZEPS' NMF: "My Son's Penis Has Just Fallen Off..." Disclaimer: The contents of this episode are not to be taken as medical advice. If you have any health-related questions, please chat to your GP. How did author and podcaster Sean Szeps think that his son's penis has fallen off? ...
09.18.2023 SOLO: Divine Feminine And Masculine Is Misogyny Wrapped In A Crystal-Themed Bow This is what happens when people go so far left, they end up being in the alt-right. Abbie fully detangles the f*cked up trend of "Divine Feminine" and "Divine Masculine". LINKS Check out aquarius_waive on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@aquarius_waive?lang=en Check out jordanadoesthings ...
09.14.2023 OSCAR'S NMF: "John Farnham Saved My Life" This is a story dating back to when Oscar had hair, drank vodka Red Bull, and publically embarrased his mum. MP Rachel Payne also joins in since this story ALSO involves weed. Wear Nala discount valid till Sunday 17th September, ...
09.11.2023 How To Get Paid More with Meggie Palmer Us women are OVER IT. Gender pay gap is real and women need to get paid more. Abbie brings in the force behind the app 'PepTalkHer', Meggie Palmer, who gives great tips on how to earn more $. Let's go. ...
09.07.2023 SOLO NMF: "Chad Was 'Accidentally' Money Laundering" As this week's listener says it: 'this doesn't describe anyone else on the planet but him'. Meet Chad; he loves his 2 rubiks cubes, has giant centipedes in his towels, and is desperate to go out with a BANG! LINKS ...
09.05.2023 SOLO PART 2: GOP Debate=More Drama Than Any Real Housewives Reunion Round 2 of Abbie's hilarious analysis of the most cooked debate of the year. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 LINKS ...
09.04.2023 SOLO PART 1: GOP Debate=More Drama Than Any Real Housewives Reunion As Abbie sees it, the US Republican party is so unhinged that a Real Housewife Reunion pales in comparison when it comes to the DRAMA. Hear Abbie recap one of the most bizarre GOP debates this world has ever seen. ...
08.31.2023 ABBIE'S NMF: "I Have A UTI, I Can't ShT, And I Got A Tooth Ripped Out Of My Skull" Yoga poses, herbal remedies, frantic walking, hardcore laxatives, NOTHING was getting rid of Abbie's clogged up sht. Did she poo herself in an Uber? Listen and find out... LINKS Watch Trainspotting https://tr.ee/4u2NSzyFVv Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel ...
08.28.2023 RACHEL PAYNE: Why Is Australia Confused About Cannabis? Disclaimer: All cannabis-related content in this episode is not to be taken as medical advice. If you have further questions or concerns, please get in touch with your GP. So many parts of the world have legalised and regulated cannabis ...
08.24.2023 NMF: "Ghost Boys Get Ghosted!" In one of the spookiest Nightmare Fuels, a listener comes across a guy who seriously believes there's a ghost in his mansion. WTF? 6th Sense vibes? LINKS Listen to Matt D'lia's podcast episode about a ghost https://tr.ee/z0ltOgvG0H Check out last ...
08.21.2023 SOLO: Me Being Sporty Is Like SO Random ALL the reasons why Abbie has decided to quit her radio show AND her new love for sports. Wait, WHAT? Yup. Looks like the Matildas have Abbie talking about balls and feet. Hey! Don't be naughty - she's just a ...
08.17.2023 NMF with G FLIP: "I Was Trying To F*ck My Pain Away" When G Flip met Ashley (who prefers to be called Lesbian Ashley), things were meant to get HOT. A few hours later, things got WAY too hot. LINKS Listen to G Flip's new album https://tr.ee/sfREQnQK1O Follow G Flip on IG ...
08.14.2023 G Flip: "I Wasn't Meant To Fall In Love With Chrishell" You asked for Aussie musician and Queer Icon G Flip to come on the pod and WE.HEARD.YOU! What's G Flip's gender journey been like? How did G Flip meet Selling Sunset (now wife) Chrishell Stause? And what's G Flip's new ...
08.10.2023 "I Can Never Look At White Wine Again" A Nightmare Fuel with Sven What could possibly go wrong at a parent-kid sleepover? When Abbie's friend Sven invited over a mum-friend and her 4 year old, things took a seriously f*cked turn. Drink wise everyone https://tr.ee/otXMsZvF9R LINKS Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review ...
08.07.2023 The Wallabies Are Eating The Bloody Petunias Because Abbie is freaking out about the world ending in 5 years, Oscar and Lem brought in some pozi climate news to counteract the terror so many of us are feeling. Also, Abbie walks us through her Logies night ending ...
08.03.2023 "A 4 Corners Investigation Waiting To Happen" A Catholic Nightmare Fuel with Yumi Stynes In one of the best-told Nightmare Fuel stories, Abbie and Yumi listen back to a listener's horrificly hilarious sex ed experience in a Catholic highschool. The crosses are closing in... LINKS Read Yumi Stynes' book 'Welcome to Sex' https://tr.ee/hmStqICo90 Listen ...
07.31.2023 Consent Is SO HOT with Yumi Stynes If anyone is going to be at the centre of book burning and witch hunting, it's going to be Yumi Stynes. In case you haven't heard, Yumi's Sex Ed for teens book 'Welcome to Sex' received horrific backlash a month ...
07.27.2023 A Kinda Horny Nightmare Fuel with Osher Günsberg We all agreed that Osher's Tinder photo is LIT. What about him screamed homewrecker though? Well, that's what this Nightmare Fuel is all about... LINKS Vote for Osher https://vote.tvweeklogies.com.au/ Listen to Osher's podcast https://tr.ee/XnTDej45GC Read Osher's book https://tr.ee/XnTDej45GC Review the ...
07.24.2023 "If You Like My Titties In This Dress, Vote For Osher Günsberg" The cornerstone of Australian TV Osher Günsberg comes in for a chat about mental health, body image, and most importantly, his Logies nom! If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website ...
07.20.2023 A Nightmare Fuel Supercut: The Times Abbie's Almost Wee'd Herself While Abbie is resting up and preparing for an EPIC episode next week, here's a mashup supercut of three Nightmare Fuels that had Abbie in stitches. You'll hear about Oscar's boat shoe, an intense Crazy Frog car chase, and a ...
07.17.2023 You're Gunna Think I've Joined A Cult Or Commune Don't worry, she's not joined an ashram. Abbie's realised that she's addicted to work and needs this week to rest so she can give this pod the energy and passion it deserves. Thanks for understanding, queens. LINKS Email your own ...
07.13.2023 "My Nipples Are Hard From Disgust" A Rental Crisis Nightmare Fuel Pubes of all shapes, colours, and sizes were found under this first-time renter's bed mattress. First of all, why would ANYONE collect and scatter pubes? Abbie has a few theories... LINKS Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Follow ...
07.10.2023 Ask Me Anything Bitchezzz - Part 1 Hundreds of questions came pouring through after Abbie posted "Ask Me Anything" on her IG Stories. Among the questions she answers are: "who are you dating at the moment?", "would you ever consider being open again?", and "what's your biggest ...
07.06.2023 "I Had A Sex Dream About You" An HR Nightmare Fuel with Cybele In a fish and chip shop in Queensland (Abbie made up the fish and chip part), one man is going to make 5 women uncomfortable. A man Abbie who says is "begging for HR". This story takes many twists among ...
07.03.2023 The 'Attachment Styles' Explainer Everyone Needs with Cybele "Attachment Style" gets thrown around a lot these days and so we brought in Relationship Coach Cybele to debunk some myths and answer some relash questions, like: WTF are attachment styles? Can you earn a secure attachment if you're not ...
06.29.2023 "No Hard Feelings, Right?" FBOY Island Finale Twist Gets Even More Hectic with Molly and Brogenn SPOILER ALERT: If you haven't watched FBoy Island's season finale and you don't want to spoil the ending for yourself, then go watch it THEN listen to this. If you have BINGEd it already, then you're in for a treat ...
06.26.2023 How To Spot An FBoy with Cybele How can you identify an FBoy from a Nice Guy IRL? What are the common types of FBoy behaviour every woman should look out for? Well, Abbie has been OBSESSED with relationship coach Cybele and she's here to walk us ...
06.22.2023 "A Knob COVERED in D*ck Cheese" A Cruel Nightmare Fuel This hot gay date was SUPPOSED to go well if only one of the men took some time aside to wash their cock. TWICE this man failed to redeem himself. Ick vibes all over this one... LINKS Watch FBoy Island ...
06.19.2023 Abbie's Birthday Surprise Feat Mumma Chatfield, Matt Agnew and More HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ABBIE! Lem and Oscar prepared a surprise celebration gathering messages from Abbie's closest friends including Matt Agnew, our boss Sam Cav and her adorable Mum, Laura LINKS Watch FBoy Island Australia now on BINGE https://bit.ly/43bGGEm Email your ...
06.15.2023 "The Cum Rag Investigation" A Retail Nightmare Fuel A couple in their fourties decide to walk into a changing room, do the deed, and then let the store's staff members deal with it. A FULL inverstigation was launched to uncover the mystery behind the orange cum rag. THIS ...
06.12.2023 Abbie Has Decided to Freeze Her Eggs with Linda Marigliano YES YOU HEARD IT! Abbie is seriously considering freezing her eggs and who better to chat to than someone who's done it herself? Cue author, podcaster, presenter, and staunch feminist: Linda Marigliano! AFTER YOU LISTEN, please take 4 minutes to ...
06.08.2023 "Dumped Me On My Dad's Death Anniversary" A Nightmare Fuel with Chelsea If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11 14 Chelsea; Abbie's friend from school, meets this guy at a gym where a f*ck buddies ...
06.05.2023 Meet The FBoy Girls! Get to know the girls leading one of the HOTTEST reality TV shows at the moment; FBoy Island Australia. Molly, Ziara and Sophie chat FBoy BTS, how they felt about Caleb's 'pussy' comment, and why microaggressions against Ziara were kept ...
06.01.2023 "My Uncle is A Terrorist" Oscar's WILD Nightmare Fuel When Producer Oscar went away on holiday, little did he know that he was about to have the weirdest enounter of his life. A questionable character with a questionable bevarage leaves Oscar WIDE awake for 45 hours after he lands ...
05.29.2023 My FAVE Life Coach: Kemi Nekvapil Global Speaker, Bestselling Author and Executive Coach Kemi Nekvapil is redefining what power means to ALL people - not just to straight white men in suits. Raw, vulnberable and full of widsom, Kemi leaves all of us in awe of ...
05.25.2023 "Are You Being Honest About Your Penis Issue?" A Bizarre Nightmare Fuel FIRSTLY, please take 4 minutes to fill out an It's A Lot survey for a chance to win $100 https://bit.ly/3BFXJSY Till now, this poor woman has no clue why this guy made up the world's most BIZARRE excuse to get ...
05.22.2023 Men Weaponising Incompetence Grinds Me Fckin Gears!!! FIRSTLY, please take 4 minutes to fill out an It's A Lot survey for a chance to win $100 https://bit.ly/3BFXJSY Why are SO many men incapable of cooking, cleaning and changing the fcking sheets? Can we grow up please? Also, ...
05.18.2023 "The History of Vibrators" An Eye Rolling Nightmare Fuel A random balding middle-aged man passes on his wisdom on the history of vibrators to an unwanting uncomfortable spectator. Read the room, mate. LINKS Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Follow the podcast @itsalotpod on IG Email your ...
05.15.2023 It's ACTUALLY Dan Savage!!! One of the biggest podcasters in the world pops in for one of the best chats we've ever heard on It's A Lot. Author, LGBTQ activist and host of the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage, answers Abbie's burning questions and reveals ...
05.14.2023 Gear Up Bitches It's Happenin'! TO-MO-RROW it's DAN SAVAGE on the podcast! LINKS Email your own voice memos for Nightmare Fuel to [email protected] Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield Executive Producer: Lem Zakharia @lemzakharia Digital and Co-Creative Producer: ...
05.11.2023 "Fingered on the Dancefloor" A Solo Nightmare Fuel This Nightmare Fuel forced Abbie, Elise and Oscar to go down a hilarious rabbit hole of YouTube tutorials on "How to Kiss Your Crush". Also, yes. Abbie does talk about getting fingered on the dance-floor. LINKS Review the podcast on ...
05.08.2023 Hmmm... Do I Want Monogamy? FIRSTLY!!! Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Are we witnessing the end of the 'avoidant' era for Abbie? Will somebody finally be able to penetrate her 'non-vaginal walls'? Will she actually drop her long-standing roster and give monogamy ...
05.04.2023 "A Surprise Period At A Nuclear Reactor" A Nightmare Fuel with Wendy Zukerman Imagine getting your period while wearing a squeaky clean white hazmat suit... Host Wendy Zukerman tells us all about her Nightmare of a story while visiting a nuclear reactor in the US. LINKS Listen to Wendy's podcast Science Vs https://bit.ly/3ALmNYe ...
05.02.2023 Monogamy, Ketamine and Science Vs with Clever Queen Wendy Zukerman Science nerd and one of Australia's OG podcast hosts Wendy Zukerman is here to answer all of Abbie's questions such as: Do men with uncircumcised penises feel less pleasure? Are we monogamous by default? And why should we stop washing ...
04.27.2023 I Don't Want To Be Pounded Anymore: A Wild Lil Nightmare Fuel FIRSTLY!!! Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts https://bit.ly/ial-review . Full Disclosure: Someone, and we're not pointing any fingers, forgot to take their ADHD medication before we recorded this episode so a 4 minute voice note sent us on a LOT ...
04.24.2023 A Complicated Queer Love Story with Angel Mia Wray This episode discusses self harm, disordered eating, depression and anxiety. Please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 if this raises any issues for you. Musician and angel Mia Wray joins the show to talk the big stuff; her ...
04.20.2023 Nightmare Fuel: LIIIIIAARRRRRR + WTF Do Physicists Do? A sweet angel who deserves the world sent in a Nightmare Fuel with more layers than an onion parfait. And because nothing is sacred we break down trying to figure out what a physicist ACTUALLY does. This episode mentions suicide. ...

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