In this episode, Meagan and Katie talk about what it really means to give your kids a “voice and a vote” — and how to do it without turning your household into a democracy gone wild. They dig into how kids’ brains develop, what kinds of choices make sense at different ages, and why letting kids have a say can actually build confidence and cooperation. It’s all about finding that sweet spot between giving your kids a voice and still being the grown-up in charge (even when they don’t love your final verdict).

Takeaways

Voice and vote means including kids in decisions in an age appropriate way.

Children's brains are not fully developed until age 26.

It's important to help kids communicate their hopes without overwhelming them with responsibility.

Practical examples help illustrate voice vs. vote for kids.

Choices should be age-appropriate and guided by parents.

Negotiation becomes more important as kids grow older.

Parents can set boundaries while allowing kids to express preferences.

Voice and vote can help children develop decision-making skills.

Every child is unique, requiring tailored approaches.

Transitioning to independence involves gradual shifts in responsibility.

Chapters

00:00 Understanding Voice and Vote

02:37 The Role of Development in Decision Making

05:16 Practical Applications for Younger Children

07:57 Navigating Choices for Older Kids

10:26 Negotiating Boundaries and Responsibilities

13:01 Transitioning to Independence

15:55 Balancing Voice and Authority

18:23 Conclusion and Reflections