Dr. Bell tackles the hard topic of rendering the "Cookie" in uncommitted relationships. Basing lifelong decisions on the flesh can be detrimental to the relationship as well as to the life of the individuals involved. Simply put, men do not marry for the "Cookie". There must be something more. No one can become successful by living impulsively. One must have discipline and respect of themselves and others.

Women choose to submit to one who makes them feel safe and secure. Men marry one whom they feel makes them be better and strive to attain something greater. Relationships build kingdoms while friendships build people.