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Living with Endo & Finding Fulfilment After Unsuccessful IVF, with Aisha


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What happens when you spend years trying to build a family — and decide to stop?


In this episode, we sit down with Aisha Balesaria, an advocate and coach who turned her experience of endometriosis, infertility, and loss into a life of purpose and joy without children.

After 15 years of being dismissed by doctors, Aisha was finally diagnosed with endometriosis and adenomyosis — only after struggling to conceive. What followed was a decade-long fertility journey: IVF cycles, miscarriages, hope, heartbreak, and eventually, the decision to stop.


Aisha shares what it took to rebuild herself after letting go of the dream of motherhood, how therapy and community transformed her healing, and why she now dedicates her work to helping others find fulfillment beyond parenthood.


We talk about the silence surrounding infertility, the cultural pressure to become a mother, and what it really means to find peace in a world that often measures women by whether they have children.


This is a story of resilience, grief, and ultimately, freedom.


We cover:

🩸 What it feels like to be medically gaslit for over a decade before diagnosis

🩸 The physical, emotional, and financial toll of IVF; and knowing when to stop

🩸 How therapy and community can help reframe life after infertility

🩸 The intersection of culture, womanhood, and the expectation to have children

🩸 Why “childless” and “childfree” don’t always fit, and what language gets wrong

🩸 How Aisha built a life of advocacy, joy, and meaning beyond motherhood


Whether you’ve experienced fertility struggles yourself, know someone who has, or simply want to better understand the nuances of womanhood, loss, and identity, this conversation is deeply moving, honest, and healing.


Find Coni:

Instagram: @mindbodyrevival_coach

Website: www.mindbodyrevivalcoach.com


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