Love is like a plant

By Love is like a plant

What's Love is like a plant about?

If love is like a plant, how can we help it grow? Love is like a plant is a podcast about relationships, dating, sex and heartbreak hosted by Ellen Huerta, founder of Mend (letsmend.com), an app that helps you through a break up, and Sarah May B,(YayWithMe.com) the podcaster behind Help Me Be Me and The Break-Up Album.

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Love is like a plant episodes:

07.06.2022
LILAP - Dealing with Burnout
Hi friends! This is an episode we recorded during 2021 all about the burnout app developed by Mend, as well as what burnout is and how to deal with it. We hope you enjoy! And if you're interested, here's the...
06.09.2021
LILAP Insecurities In Relationships
In this episode, Sarah May and Elle answer a listener request - how to deal with insecurities in relationships. We were both recording from home during lockdown, so apologies in advance for the sound quality. Wishing you all well this...
10.22.2020
LILAP Listener Q&A Episode 3: We Answer Your Last Batch Of Questions!
We hope you all are doing well. In this episode, Sarah May and Elle answer the last batch of LILAP listener questions that were sent in this spring. We were both recording from home during lockdown, so apologies in advance...
06.24.2020
LILAP Listener Q&A Episode 2: We Answer More Of Your Questions!
We hope you all are doing well. In this episode, Sarah May and Elle answer more LILAP listener questions. Wishing you all well this summer and sending our love - stay safe and healthy! Questions answered in this episode: -How can you...
05.26.2020
LILAP Listener Q&A Episode 1: We Answer Your Questions!
In this episode, Sarah May and Elle answer LILAP listener questions on breakups, boundaries, relationships, roommate troubles & dating. In this episode we mentioned the Red Flags episode: https://soundcloud.com/loveislikeaplant/redflags. We also mentioned a great resource on healthy vs unhealthy relationships, One Love...
05.13.2020
Coronavirus Episode: Dealing With Uncertainty During Lockdown
In this episode of Love Is Like A Plant, Elle and Sarah May share some of their favorite resources for dealing with the difficulty and uncertainty of the current situation. If you like this podcast, please send it to a...
04.06.2020
Coronavirus Episode: Being Single During Lockdown
In this episode, Elle and Sarah May talk about how to stay sane if you're on lockdown by yourself and how to mend if you're going through a breakup during this pandemic. They'll also be recording a LIVE episode with...
12.13.2019
How To Have A Healthy Long Distance Relationship
Welcome to our last episode of 2019! In this episode, we offered a response to a LILAP listener's question about how to have a healthy long-distance relationship, one where you're not clinging even though the person is far away. We...
10.18.2019
The Pros & Cons Of Dating Someone Older
In this episode of LILAP, Elle and Sarah May talk about dating someone who's older. Are there benefits to dating someone who's a few or more years older? Is the older dating pool better or worse for dating? Are there...
09.13.2019
What To Do If You're Overprotective Or Jealous When It Comes To Exes
Exes can be a point of stress for a lot of couples, and social media doesn't make it any easier...In this episode of LILAP, Elle and Sarah talk about how to deal with your partner's exes (or your ex's exes!),...
08.07.2019
Should You Stay Or Should You Go? How To Know If A Relationship Is Right
We're back from our seasonal break with a whole new set of episodes! Today's episode is all about relationship happiness and how to know whether you're with the right person. We talk about staying in relationships too long, what questions...
03.22.2019
Is Social Media Affecting Your Love Life?
In this episode of LILAP, Elle and Sarah May talk about the way social media can affect relationships and why it may be a good idea to detox from social media. They also share some advice on how to deal...
03.05.2019
Sex With Your Ex: Why We Do It & How To Recover
In this episode of LILAP, Elle and Sarah May tackle a very popular topic: sex with an ex. Why do we hook up with our exes? How can we recover if we're post-sex with an ex and not feeling great...
01.31.2019
The Valentine's Day Episode: How To Enjoy V-Day Even If You're Single
Happy Valentine's Day! In this episode, Elle and Sarah talk about Valentine's Day, why it's a charged holiday and how to enjoy it even if you're not one part of a couple. Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on...
01.12.2019
Setting Yourself Up For Happiness In The New Year
Happy New Year everyone! In this episode of LILAP, Sarah and Elle share their own personal resolutions and how they like to kick off the new year. They also talk about the power of manifestation and how to harness the...
12.01.2018
What To Do When Your Breakup Is Dragging Out
In this listener requested episode of LILAP, Elle and Sarah May talk about what to do when a breakup drags out and why we so often avoid a clean break even when we know it's the right thing. Elle is offering...
10.31.2018
A Positive Outlook: How Your Partner's Mindset Can Affect You & Your Relationship
In this episode, Sarah May and Elle talk about positive outlooks vs negative outlooks and why mindset is an important thing to think about when it comes to your own relationships. If you like this episode, be sure to subscribe...
10.11.2018
Making It Official: When & How To Define The Relationship (DTR)
In this episode, Sarah May and Elle share their own experiences of making things official, and how to navigate the conversation even if you're scared of the outcome. Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for...
08.24.2018
Don't Settle: Why You Shouldn't Settle In A Relationship
In this episode of LILAP, Sarah May and Elle talk about settling: why you shouldn't settle in a relationship & how to identify if you are settling (and then what to do about it!). If you like this episode, share...
08.17.2018
MICROCHEATING! What is it & how to deal if it happens to you
Today we talk about what it means to "microcheat" and how to deal with it if it comes up in your own relationships. Elle is offering a special 20% off discount on all Mend Classes for LILAP listeners! To redeem, use...
05.30.2018
Dating: Our Approach To Dating & What To Look For In A Partner
In this episode of LILAP, Sarah May and Elle talk about their own approaches to dating as a way of answering the common question, "What should I look for in a partner?" If you like this episode, share it with your...
04.07.2018
What To Do When Your Partner Breaks Up With You To Focus On Work/School/_______
Has someone ever told you..."I just need to really focus on myself/my career/school/_____" as a reason for not moving forward in a relationship? We call this "getting their house in order" and it's the topic of today's podcast - why...
03.22.2018
Post-Breakup Shame: What To Do If You Feel Embarrassed After Your Breakup
Post-breakup shame is normal - know that you're not alone if you feel that sting. If you're feeling ashamed or embarrassed after your breakup, this episode will help you move through those feelings and focus on what's more important: you! If...
02.26.2018
Our Self Care Routines & How To Make Self Care A Daily Practice
Self care is IN, and for good reason. Elle and Sarah May share how they're practicing self care at the moment and how you can take care of yourself even if you feel like you don't have the time. Elle is...
12.12.2017
Breakups: Is It Harder To Leave Or To Be Left?
Love Is Like A Plant is back! We were on hiatus this fall while Sarah welcomed a new human into her life, but we are excited to be back with today's episode where we ask the question: Is it harder...
07.26.2017
What To Do If You're Blaming Yourself For Your Break Up
Self blame is a painful reality for most people after heartbreak. In today's episode, Elle and Sarah May talk about how to let go of feeling responsible for your breakup. If you like this episode, subscribe and share it with...
06.13.2017
What Toxic Habits You Should Avoid In Relationships
In this episode of Love Is Like A Plant, Elle and Sarah May talk about things to avoid if you want to improve the health of your relationship. If you like this podcast, be sure to subscribe, share with friends,...
04.27.2017
When + How To Let Go Of A Relationship That Isn't Right
In this episode of LILAP, Sarah May and Elle talk about how to let go, even, and especially, when it hurts. If you like LILAP, please subscribe for future episodes and leave a review on iTunes!
04.27.2017
Breakups: How To Get Through Your First Major Heartbreak
In this episode of LILAP, Sarah May and Elle talk about first heartbreak and why they say "the first cut is the deepest." They also give tips for how to deal, if you're experiencing your first major heartbreak. If you like...
01.04.2017
Happy New Year! Elle & Sarah May Share Their New Year's Rituals
Happy New Year from Elle and Sarah May!! In this episode of Love Is Like A Plant, they share their New Year's rituals and how to start the year in a way that nourishes you. If you like LILAP, please subscribe...
12.23.2016
Holiday Loneliness: How To Make It Through The Holidays!
This episode of LILAP is for anyone who is feeling a little lonely during the holidays this year. Elle and Sarah May talk about what to do if you're solo this year, and how to thrive during the holiday season....
10.14.2016
Red Flags: What To Look For + What To Avoid When You're Dating
Do you pay attention to red flags in relationships? Elle and Sarah May share their top red flags and what to do when they happen with someone you're seeing. If you like LILAP, please subscribe for future episodes and leave us...
09.23.2016
Do You Stay In Relationships Because You're Scared Of Being Alone?
Does the thought of breaking up with your S.O. send you in a panic even if you're not sure they're the right person? Are you stuck in a mediocre relationship because you would rather not be alone? In this week's...
09.09.2016
Why We Ghost People + What To Do If You've Been Ghosted
This week Sarah May and Elle talk about how to deal with GHOSTING, "the act of suddenly ceasing all communication with someone the subject is dating, but no longer wishes to date." (Thanks, urbandictionary.com) If you like this episode be sure...
08.26.2016
What To Do When Your Partner Won't Change
This week Sarah May and Elle discuss what to do when your partner won't change, and a few tips to make difficult conversations easier. If you like this episode be sure to subscribe and share with your friends! You can...
08.12.2016
Soul Mates: Should You Hold Out To Meet Your Soul Mate?
Do you believe in soul mates? Should you wait until you find the perfect one? What if you aren't sure? These are the questions Sarah May and Elle answer in this episode on soul mates. If you like this episode...
07.28.2016
Fight Fair: What You Should Know About Fighting With Your S.O.
Fighting is inevitable in relationships, but healthy fighting is something that can take practice. In this episode, Sarah May and Elle share their top tips for resolving conflict and making it through difficult conversations with the person you love (and...
07.22.2016
What To Do When Someone Tells You They Don't Love You Anymore
It happens: people fall out of love. So what happens next? How can you put yourself back together if someone tells you they don't love you, but you still love them? And if this happens in committed relationships and marriages,...
07.15.2016
On-Again, Off-Again: What to Do When Someone Says They Want A Break
Why are on-again off-again relationships so common? And what should you do if your partner wants to take a break? Elle and Sarah May discuss in this week's episode of LILAP. If you like this episode, leave us a review...
06.21.2016
How To Keep It Fresh: Can A Relationship Be Too Intimate?
In this episode of LILAP, Sarah May and Elle talk about how to keep things interesting in a relationship, and whether or not there is such a thing as being "too intimate." If you like this episode be sure to...
06.10.2016
Being Single: Why It Doesn't Suck + What To Do When It Hurts
We know it can be an eye-rolling moment when someone says being single is awesome, but the truth is: sometimes is really is awesome. Sometimes it's not awesome. In this episode of LILAP, Elle and Sarah May talk about both...
06.03.2016
The Ex Episode: How to Get Your Ex Back
This week's episode is dedicated to anyone who has ever Googled "how to get my ex back." In The Ex Episode we talk about getting back together with exes, whether exes can be friends and what to do when you...
05.20.2016
How to Talk About Boundaries In A Relationship + What To Do When You Don't Agree
In this week's episode, we are talking about why boundaries are important in relationships and what to do when your ideas of what's OK/what's not OK in a relationship don't align. We also share the key to talking about boundaries...
05.13.2016
Marriage Part Deux: Why Do People Get Married + What If One Person Doesn't Want To?
In this episode, Sarah May and Elle talk about marriage: why is one of them married and the other isn't? Why do people get married? And is it a deal breaker if someone doesn't want to get married? If you like...
05.03.2016
What To Do When You Feel Jealous In Relationships + Breakups
Being jealous in a relationship or after a breakup is its own form of torture, so how do you stop if you're totally obsessed? In this episode Ellen Huerta (letsmend.com) and Sarah May B. (helpmebeme.com) talk about what's behind jealousy...
04.29.2016
Commitment Issues: What to Do If Someone Won't Commit
What should you do if someone won't commit? In this episode of Love is like a plant, Ellen Huerta (letsmend.com) and Sarah May B. (helpmebeme.com) talk about commitment - why people are afraid of it, and what to do if...
04.20.2016
Cheating: Why It Happens + What To Do About It
Cheating is one of the most painful things, yet it happens all the time. In this episode, Ellen Huerta (of letsmend.com) and Sarah May B. (of Help Me Be Me)talk about why people cheat and what to do when it...
04.15.2016
Marriage Part 1: Are Polyamory and Serial Monogamy Replacing Marriage?
What is the state of relationships in 2016? Ellen Huerta of Mend (letsmend.com) and Sarah May B. of Help Me Be Me (teaspoonofhappy.com) talk about the changing nature of marriage and relationships, and how they think about partnerships. If you...
04.06.2016
3 Tips For Dating + Finding Love In The Age Of Tinder
How have dating apps affected love and romance? Ellen Huerta of Mend (letsmend.com) and Sarah May B. of Help Me Be Me (teaspoonofhappy.com) talk about how they found love through dating apps, plus some tips for anyone on the market....
04.01.2016
Together but Alone: How to Love Someone and Not Lose Yourself
In this episode of Love is like a plant, Ellen Huerta of Mend (letsmend.com) and Sarah May B. of Help Me Be Me (teaspoonofhappy.com) talk about how to find balance between love and life. How can we love someone and...

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Love is like a plant episodes:

LILAP - Dealing with Burnout

LILAP Insecurities In Relationships

LILAP Listener Q&A Episode 3: We Answer Your Last Batch Of Questions!

LILAP Listener Q&A Episode 2: We Answer More Of Your Questions!

LILAP Listener Q&A Episode 1: We Answer Your Questions!

Coronavirus Episode: Dealing With Uncertainty During Lockdown

Coronavirus Episode: Being Single During Lockdown

How To Have A Healthy Long Distance Relationship

The Pros & Cons Of Dating Someone Older

What To Do If You're Overprotective Or Jealous When It Comes To Exes

Should You Stay Or Should You Go? How To Know If A Relationship Is Right

Is Social Media Affecting Your Love Life?

Sex With Your Ex: Why We Do It & How To Recover

The Valentine's Day Episode: How To Enjoy V-Day Even If You're Single

Setting Yourself Up For Happiness In The New Year

What To Do When Your Breakup Is Dragging Out

A Positive Outlook: How Your Partner's Mindset Can Affect You & Your Relationship

Making It Official: When & How To Define The Relationship (DTR)

Don't Settle: Why You Shouldn't Settle In A Relationship

MICROCHEATING! What is it & how to deal if it happens to you

Dating: Our Approach To Dating & What To Look For In A Partner

What To Do When Your Partner Breaks Up With You To Focus On Work/School/_______

Post-Breakup Shame: What To Do If You Feel Embarrassed After Your Breakup

Our Self Care Routines & How To Make Self Care A Daily Practice

Breakups: Is It Harder To Leave Or To Be Left?

What To Do If You're Blaming Yourself For Your Break Up

What Toxic Habits You Should Avoid In Relationships

When + How To Let Go Of A Relationship That Isn't Right

Breakups: How To Get Through Your First Major Heartbreak

Happy New Year! Elle & Sarah May Share Their New Year's Rituals

Holiday Loneliness: How To Make It Through The Holidays!

Red Flags: What To Look For + What To Avoid When You're Dating

Do You Stay In Relationships Because You're Scared Of Being Alone?

Why We Ghost People + What To Do If You've Been Ghosted

What To Do When Your Partner Won't Change

Soul Mates: Should You Hold Out To Meet Your Soul Mate?

Fight Fair: What You Should Know About Fighting With Your S.O.

What To Do When Someone Tells You They Don't Love You Anymore

On-Again, Off-Again: What to Do When Someone Says They Want A Break

How To Keep It Fresh: Can A Relationship Be Too Intimate?

Being Single: Why It Doesn't Suck + What To Do When It Hurts

The Ex Episode: How to Get Your Ex Back

How to Talk About Boundaries In A Relationship + What To Do When You Don't Agree

Marriage Part Deux: Why Do People Get Married + What If One Person Doesn't Want To?

What To Do When You Feel Jealous In Relationships + Breakups

Commitment Issues: What to Do If Someone Won't Commit

Cheating: Why It Happens + What To Do About It

Marriage Part 1: Are Polyamory and Serial Monogamy Replacing Marriage?

3 Tips For Dating + Finding Love In The Age Of Tinder

Together but Alone: How to Love Someone and Not Lose Yourself