Stephen and Paul discuss pick-up, dating, integrity, transitioning from player to boyfriend and the crucial importance of setting your terms with women AND when to tell her to hit the road...

LSA 009: The Paul Janka Interview

A dating podcast for the man who is done with games, and who seeks effective and powerful solutions to his dating challenges. We also focus on lifestyle design and self improvement, as improving ones success with women is directly tied to how you spend your time, your purpose and beliefs, and internal self image. Podcast episodes are hosted by author and NYC/San Diego-based dating coach Stephen Nash and includes interviews with leading edge experts in the fields of lifestyle design, dating, relationships and personal evolution. (Note: This used to be the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast)

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Without a doubt, lifestyle and social circle play a large role in KEEPING a woman attracted to us.

She, unconsciously and innately, will evaluate us based on our lifestyle and our community of friends. She knows that these two relationships reveal YOU.

In this podcast episode (a brief one btw - just over 20 minutes), I discuss 2 of my favorite quotes and reveal the BEST way to leverage this fact of attraction to our favor.

LSA058: The Crucial Intersection of Lifestyle & Attraction

Max Nachamkin had a radical idea.

Instead of busying himself with routines, gimmicks or any false posturing he decided to do nothing - literally.

He was in the middle of a crowded bar, with many attractive girls, and instead of posing in any way, shape or form he decided to stand in one place and simply watch what happened - inside and outside of himself.

LSA057: Max Nachamkin on Breaking Thru Insecurity, Body Language & The Power of Acceptance

For many years, I have been fascinated by ritual - and none moreso than the Vision Quest.

Largely lost in the modern age, the vision quest is an ancient rite whereby a young, adolescent male goes into nature for a set period of time and returns an adult, a man. Having fended for himself, contacted nature in a direct way and opened to himself and the universe, he is ready for adulthood and the responsibility this carries.

At no point in our history do we need rites such as vision quests moreso than now and Dennis Kiley and Rob Schene (amongst others) seek to fill that void.

LSA056: Vision Quests & Going Wild with Dennis Kiley & Rob Schene

Peter Scott had a tough choice to make...stay with his alcoholic mother and continue living in chaos and fear. Or, confront her about her drinking and move in with his grandparents.

Seems like an obvious, though difficult, choice to make, no?

Peter however had to make this decision when he was 10 years old...

...and he did make that choice, and forever altered the path his life would follow.

LSA055: Peter Scott IV on Designing a Fearless Life, Making Tough Choices & Serving Others

There is a crisis in manhood, and Stephen Mansfield is one of the most outspoken and eloquent voices talking about it. We have lost our way, and Stephen has made a map for how we can get back on track.

I was first made aware of Stephen Mansfield a few years ago when he released his terrific "Mansfield's Book of Manly Men". We discuss his "4 tenets of masculinity" & more on this episode of the Lifestyle Arts Podcast.

LSA 009: The Paul Janka Interview

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