This week we are joined by Los Angeles screenwriter and standup comedian, Sarah Afkami. Sarah has just wrapped on a Lionsgate project called "The Look" airing on Starz soon. We chat about Sarah's gender identity, fear of transitioning, and alter-ego "Mendy." We talk strap-ons, body dysphoria, and the isolation of pansexuality as well as how Sarah's early sexuality with women was interpreted by Sarah's parents. Finally, Sarah defines the non-binary paradigm and Remy explain the Bella Thorne Only Fans Scandal / how it is putting sex workers' income in jeopardy.  Follow Sarah/Mendy @Safkami Follow us at @howcumpodcast and @RemyKassimir Sign up for access to extras for only $5 at patreon.com/howcum Check out our website for live shows & NEW merch  

24 Mendy (Sarah Afkami)

Comedian Remy Kassimir had NEVER had an orgasm, so she started this podcast to figure it out. Spoiler alert: SHE DID IT! And now in its 5th season How C*m has helped thousands of Cumpanions have their first O's, hundreds of expert guests (scientists/porn/Fran Drescher + beyond) tell Remy their first time c*mming stories, all with huge laughs along the way. C*m join us!

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It's the season 5 finale and we are closing it out with a bang-- and Ben! He and Remy are doing something she is calling "The BFF Test"-- (Boyfriend Forever Test) which she created and is basically The Newlywed Game for unmarried people* --  with way more sex questions. They see how their answers match up as they talk about recent rendezvous, adventures in butt-plugging, and how each of them could stand to be more romantic. It is an extremely fun and giggly episode, but if you're related to Remy or Ben, close to both of them, or just don't want to picture them bumping uglies it's maybe not the ep for you! You've been warned.  *Married people can still play, duh   Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Ben at @BennyDNYC Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

45 Where the Magic Happens (Ben DeMarco)

Aerospace defense engineer-turned-rising adult film icon John Legendary is here to talk EVERYTHING regarding the long-misunderstood ‘hotwife’ lifestyle-- you may have heard about "cuckolding" in porn but he gives us the inside scoop and tells us about his freewheeling adventures as an in-demand ‘bull’ in other people’s bedrooms. He goes into us how he got into the hotwifing lifestyle, how he got into porn, how hotwifing in porn differs from how it actually is in real life and SO much more.   Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow John at @MrLegendaryXXX Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

44 The Hot-Wife Life (John Legendary)

Actor and Comedian Jade Catta-Preta is back after many seasons and this time she has several life changes to share; she is "so much gayer now" and is also going through pre-menopause or "perimenopause." We talk about everything from getting good at gay sex, to learning to love yourself, to how she felt getting diagnosed with perimenopause. She tells us about how she has been treating it and we run through all the symptoms that come with it in case anyone is going through something similar. It is all parts educational, hilarious, and horny!   CW: SA  Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Jade at @jadecattapreta Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

43 Hating Perimenopause + Loving P***y (Jade Catta-Preta)

A very special episode with one woman who has NEVER masturbated, and another who has given up having sex with other people! Remy sits down with Lauren Hope Krass- stand up comedian and Betches content manager, podcast host, video star and humor writer, and Rachel B - comedy club veteran and host of the Dating App Disasters Podcast. They answer all questions related to why they do not/ are not partaking in their respective sexual activities and dive into body image, dating culture, after-care and so much more. It is a relatable, heart warming, hilarious and important conversation. Enjoy! CW: Disordered eating and sexual assault  Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Rachel at @Racheebe and Lauren at @LaurenHopeKrass Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

42 Intuitive F*cking (Lauren Hope Krass + Rachel B)

Remy had the extreme pleasure talking to the hilarious and wonderful Salma Hindy -- a first-generation Egyptian-Canadian comedian, writer, actor and performer who has opened for Ken Jeong, Ramy Youssef, Beth Stelling, and Chelsea Handler. Salma tells us all about growing up in a very strict religious household and the ways in which it effected her sexuality and self-view. She tells us all about ending her relationship with people pleasing and how she pivoted to self-pleasing, with the help of therapy, comedy, and a few sex toys. She regales us with many stories of her first time experiencing all things sexual in her late 20s-early 30s and this episode is all of the things Salma is: funny, interesting, endearing, and just gets better and better as time goes on.  TW: Eating disorders, body image issues, religious trauma, sexual assault/ sexual violence, blood   Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Salma at @Salma.Hindy Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!  

24 Mendy (Sarah Afkami)

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