Some people are able to aim for excellence, not quite make it, and let it go. But many kids and adults experience deep shame when they miss the mark. What's the truth about perfectionism? Is it a matter of having high standards, or something else? Join me in conversation with Professor Thomas Curran today.

Professor Curran is also the author of the wonderful book The Perfection Trap: Embracing the Power of Good Enough.

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S2 Ep 88: Mythbusting Perfectionism with Professor Thomas Curran

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I'm Dr. Aliza Pressman, developmental psychologist, parent educator, asst. clinical professor, and co-founder of both Mount Sinai Parenting Center and SeedlingsGroup. And I'm a mom... trying to raise two good humans myself, so I'm in this with you!
 
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Dr. Mary Claire Haver, board-certified OBGYN and menopause expert, joins us as we dive deep into the world of menopause and perimenopause. We explore the latest strategies and scientific insights that promise not just to help you manage but truly thrive during menopause. Dr. Mary Claire Haver shares her expert tips on hormonal balance, diet modifications, and lifestyle adjustments designed to enhance your health and well-being during this significant life transition. 

This episode is a must listen and will arm you with the knowledge and tools you need to navigate these changes confidently and healthily. 




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The Complete Guide to Understanding Menopause and Perimenopause w/ Dr. Mary Claire Haver

In this special episode, we feature a chapter of "The 5 Principles of Parenting," focusing on the foundational aspects of discipline. Tune in to learn the keys to discipline that respect both the child’s feelings and the parent’s expectations, how to navigate discipline at different ages, and how to understand your child’s moral development stage.




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A Disciplined Approach to Discipline

This episode originally aired in October 2021. 

Dr. Aliza sits down with Professor Peter Gray to discuss the healthiest approaches to play, and potential mistakes commonly made by well-meaning parents.




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The Transformative Power of Play

Sharing an episode of another podcast Dr. Aliza is loving: Pop Culture Moms. Andie and Sabrina are toddler moms and best friends of 20 years. They’re taking their obsession with TV and movies to the next level by talking to celebrities, writers and fellow “scholars” of pop culture about what they can learn from the fictional moms they love most. In this clip, “Euphoria” actress Alanna Ubach talks about the pros and cons of being a “cool mom” like her character Suze Howard — a trope made famous by the original “Mean Girls” movie. You can listen to more Pop Culture Moms at link.chtbl.com/popculturemomss1/raisinggoodhumans




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Alanna Ubach on “Cool Moms,” from Pop Culture Moms

In this eye-opening episode, Imran Ahmed, founder of the Center for Countering Digital Hate (CCDH) explores the grave impact of social media on children’s mental health. The conversation spans the dangers lurking on various platforms, and underscores the importance of shame-free dialogue between parents and their kids. As we navigate a world where digital interaction is unavoidable, Ahmed offers invaluable insights and actionable advice for safeguarding our children’s mental health in the digital age.




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S2 Ep 88: Mythbusting Perfectionism with Professor Thomas Curran

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