12: Nick Notas: The Measure of Success is in Your Efforts

Dating coach and founder of The Dating Specialist, Nick was just a regular guy, living in Boston, when his girlfriend shattered his world and broke up with him on their anniversary. What followed was a few years of introspective reflection backed with some psychology knowledge, that got him to get a real guy's perspective. Now he runs thedatingspecialist.com a go-to guide for men looking for advice on dating, sex and overcoming shame.

I scheduled coaching sessions with Nick, and he worked with me personally on texting flirtatiously, building energy and excitement, preparing for a great date, and being more comfortable generating a sexual buzz in my relationship. He has a clear look on how this world runs for the average guy like you and me. I was impressed with how relatable he was...I felt like I knew him.

Today on Shy Man's Dating School podcast series I'll pick Nick's brain on everything from why being a nice guy doesn't work, to emphasizing the need to express your intention towards women, in a positive way. He'll also talk about overcoming shame and divulge some trade secrets on winning over women.