ONE Extraordinary Marriage Daily Steps

By Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

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Welcome to Daily Steps from ONE Extraordinary Marriage! Each day Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo outline the simple steps that you can take to have the ultimate marriage adventure.

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ONE Extraordinary Marriage Daily Steps episodes:

04.25.2019
DS 115: What’s Next?
Today is the last day of Daily Steps. We’ve enjoyed partnering with you and having you part of the ONE family. Over the last 9 years we have shared about sex, love and commitment on the ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show. Come join us...
04.18.2019
DS 114: Is It Wrong for a Husband or Wife to Tell Their Spouse That They Should Lose Weight?
You're not each other’s parents instead you are each other’s partners. Treat each other with the level of respect and care bestowed upon a married couple. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
04.11.2019
DS 113: How Do We Keep Our Marriage Strong When We Are Living Paycheck to Paycheck
Finances plays a role in every marriage and knowing how to keep it strong through all seasons is vital to long term fulfillment. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
04.04.2019
DS 112: How Do You Keep the Intimacy Lifestyle Routine When You Are Outside of Your Home?
There will be times when you are traveling together that you'll need to have a plan for staying consistent with your intimacy lifestyle Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
03.28.2019
DS 111: How Do You Reconcile Different Needs for Affection?
Touch is an important part of any marriage union and yet when it's overt or non-existent it can cause tension between you and your spouse. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
03.21.2019
DS 110: Does It Matter If We Don't Go to Bed at the Same Time?
There are many studies that conclude that going to bed together has a positive benefit on both you and your spouse. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
03.14.2019
DS 109: How Do You Create Intimacy with a Large Family?
As your family grows there are more moving parts which can cause a disconnect when it comes to your sexual intimacy. Even with a large family you can find time to connect. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a...
03.07.2019
DS 108: How Can I Help My Spouse Disconnect From Work and Connect With Me?
When work gets in the way of your marriage it may be time to set the vision for your marriage. Doing so can help you and your spouse have a focus other than work. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to...
02.28.2019
DS 107: How Can We Do a Sex Challenge If Our Levels of Desire Are So Different?
The time you spend with each other during a challenge serves as a way to break out of the different mindsets each of you have around sex as well as the roll you play as the high desire or low...
02.21.2019
DS 106: How Do You Keep Sex From Becoming Routine During a Sex Challenge?
Prior to starting you want to think about how you can be creative throughout your challenge. This is an opportunity for the two of you to spice up your sex life. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice...
02.14.2019
DS 105: Why Do a Sex Challenge Around a Holiday?
Holidays, celebrations, birthdays are typically a one day event. When you start or finish a challenge on one of these you'll remember it for years to come. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
02.07.2019
DS 104: What’s The Idea Behind a Sex Challenge?
Starting a sex challenge isn't just about sex. It's about fostering your emotional intimacy, eliminating rejection and trying something new with your spouse. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
01.31.2019
DS 103: How Can Scheduling Sex Benefit Our Marriage?
Honestly… scheduling sex IS spontaneous, intimate and much more! When you schedule sex your giving yourself and your spouse a way to be sexually intimate on a regular basis that is best for the two of you. Submit your question to [email protected] or...
01.24.2019
DS 102: How Do I Handle My Wife’s Feelings Around Her Lack of Arousal?
Arousal and what that looks like or means to you both can change over time. Having conversation around this topic is key for husband and wife to to enjoy their sexual intimacy. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a...
01.17.2019
DS 101: How Do We Maintain Our Sex Life in a Small House With Teenagers and a Baby?
Anyone who has kids knows that when kids enter the picture your sex life enters a new phase. The key is to change your mindset from “we can’t do this” to “let’s get creative”. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to...
01.10.2019
DS 100: Am I Out Of My Mind For Changing My Mind About Having Kids?
Kids are a big conversation for couples and it’s not a one time conversation. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
01.03.2019
DS 099: How Can We Keep Intimacy Alive When a Spouse Is Deployed Overseas?
No matter the circumstances you may be facing you can continue to make your marriage extraordinary when your spouse is deployed. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
12.27.2018
DS 098: Is It OK for a Married Couple to Use Sex Toys?
Toys can enhance sexual pleasure, create a spark and bring excitement to you sex life. Learn how to discuss your comfort level with toys in your bedroom. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
12.20.2018
DS 097: How Can We Do The Coffee Break If We Are Long Distance?
The Coffee Break is like a business meeting for your marriage where you talk about everything from love to logistics. You can even do it when you are long distance. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
12.13.2018
DS 096: How Do We Handle Cleaning Up After Sex?
No matter where you make love there is the clean up that comes afterwards. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
12.06.2018
DS 095: What If I Don't Know What I Like?
If you don’t know what you like it’s time to start your own personal sex ed class in your bedroom with your spouse. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
11.29.2018
DS 094: How Do I Talk to My Kids About Sex?
As a parent make a commitment to answer your children truthfully about sex, even if it means that you have to do a little research to answer their questions. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
11.15.2018
DS 093: How Can We Be Sexually Intimate When We Don’t Even Sleep Together Because of a Back Injury?
Physical limitations due to injuries can and will happen. Knowing some strategies to approach this will be beneficial to being sexually intimate. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
11.08.2018
DS 092: What is the Best Way to Lovingly Explain What I Would Like My Wife to Wear When it Comes to Our Sexual Intimacy?
Discussing your sex life is not a one and done conversation. Healthy marriages talk about their sexual intimacy and all its many aspects on a regular basis. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
11.01.2018
DS 091: How Can We Make Our Words and Actions Our New Normal If We Didn’t Grow Up That Way?
When the path isn't clear it's time to cast a vision that both you and your spouse what to reach for together. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
10.25.2018
DS 090: How Do I Get My Husband to Wear His Wedding Ring?
The wedding ring is a circle which has no beginning or end and is therefore a symbol of infinity. It is endless, eternal, just the way love should be. And yet what happens when your spouse decides not to wear theirs. Submit...
10.18.2018
DS 089: How Can I Help My Wife Shut Off Her Brain in the Bedroom?
There is a lot that is going on that there are times when the brain has a hard time focusing in on the one next to you. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
10.11.2018
DS 088: Do You Combine Sensation Oil in Your Oral Sex Fun?
What you use when having oral sex can help it make it more enjoyable or it can turn you off. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
10.04.2018
DS 087: Is It Wrong of Me to Want My Wife to Dress Skanky?
The words you choose to use can have an impact on how your spouse responds to you. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
09.27.2018
DS 086: How Do You Sleep in the Same Bed as Your Spouse When the Two of You Have Opposite Body Temps?
Not enough covers or to many covers can sometimes be a question you're asking each other. Especially when the two of you have different body temperature. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
09.20.2018
DS 085: How Can I Share the Importance of Maintaining One's Appearance After Marriage?
Discussing the appearence of your spouse can be a touchy topic. We share how you can bring this up to your spouse without having hurt feelings or causing resentment. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
09.13.2018
DS 084: How Do I Encourage My Husband to do Creative Things to Show His Love?
There may be times when your spouse doesn't know exactly what you want. Learn how to encourage him to show his love in creative ways. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
09.06.2018
DS 083: Can Poor Body Image Affect a Woman’s Ability to Have An Orgasm?
Body image isn’t just about what you see, it’s about how you feel about what you see. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
08.30.2018
DS 082: How Do We Juggle Different Work Schedules?
There are a lot of couples in the ONE family with different schedules. If this is your marriage we share what others have done to connect sexually with different work schedules. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
08.23.2018
DS 081: How Do You Pull Off the Logistics of Morning Sex?
When it comes to morning sex make sure that you discuss what this looks like for you and for your spouse. What you know helps you both to make it happen. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice...
08.20.2018
DS 080: How Do We Deal With Addiction In The Marriage?
The process of becoming clean and sober and having a healthy marriage is just that, a process, but like all processes it needs a beginning. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
08.17.2018
DS 079: What Do You Do When You Get to the Point When You Have Nothing to Talk About Anymore?
There can be a lot of reasons why the two of you aren’t talking and different seasons of life may lead to this time right now. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
08.16.2018
DS 078: Is There Such a Thing as Falling Out of Love?
The idea of falling out of love refers to love as a noun but love is a verb. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
08.15.2018
DS 077: How Can New Parents Make Sure They Are Still Putting in Time For Their Relationship?
The number one thing to keep in mind even from the earliest days is that your marriage is your child’s first model for what marriage looks like. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
08.15.2018
DS 077: How Can New Parents Make Sure We Are Still Putting in Time For the Relationship?
The number one thing to keep in mind even from the earliest days is that your marriage is your child’s first model for what marriage looks like. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
08.14.2018
DS 76: How Do You Stop Your Spouse From Lying?
Some people lie out of habit, what started out as "a little white lie" or difficult has now become routine. If this is the case in your marriage it may be time to seek outside help. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to...
08.13.2018
DS 075: Is It Acceptable For Us to Have Naughty Sex?
Naughty is one of those words that means a lot of different things to a lot of different people. Sex was designed as a way for a husband and a wife to connect in way that they cannot do with...
08.10.2018
DS 074: How Do You Find Love, Specifically a Godly Man, After a Divorce?
It might seem unusual for us to answer a question about how to find a man. We have a lot of folks in the ONE family who are divorced, who are single and wanting to know what to do to have...
08.09.2018
DS 073: How Do You Keep Your Sex Life Alive When You Are Trying to Conceive?
In dealing with infertility, sex can become a task. It can become all about timing and cycles and body temperature and ovulation. All about the data points and not about the connection. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a...
08.08.2018
DS 072: How Does One Say That They Want More Sex Without Saying It?
You have made it clear that you would like to have more sex and yet your spouse isn't responding. It’s time to dig deeper into what the two of you envision for your sexual intimacy. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to...
08.07.2018
DS 071: How Do You Know When You Are Ready to Have Kids?
Getting ready to have a baby is first and foremost about making your marriage relationship strong. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
08.06.2018
DS 070: How Can We Possibly Get Along When it Seems Like We Have Grown So Far Apart?
When you are in a place where you feel you are far apart you may have to start at the beginning and truly get to know your spouse once again. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
08.03.2018
DS 069: What Do I Do About the Resentment That I Feel Having to Constantly Clean Up After My Husband?
Cleaning up after another person without any response/help or acknowledgement can easily lead to resentment. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
08.02.2018
DS 068: What Do We Need to Consider When Planning a Vacation for Just the Two of Us?
The most important part of any vacation is to discuss your expectations before you leave so you have an amazing time together. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave a voice message.
08.01.2018
DS 067: How Do We Share with Family That My Husband is Going to be a Stay at Home Dad?
Learning to create your own family unit, with your own traditions, values and ideals is one of the most challenging things that a couple can do and yet one of the most necessary. Submit your question to [email protected] or call 858-883-8842 to leave...

What's ONE Extraordinary Marriage Daily Steps about?

Download our free app to listen on your phone

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Daily Steps episodes:

DS 115: What’s Next?

DS 114: Is It Wrong for a Husband or Wife to Tell Their Spouse That They Should Lose Weight?

DS 113: How Do We Keep Our Marriage Strong When We Are Living Paycheck to Paycheck

DS 112: How Do You Keep the Intimacy Lifestyle Routine When You Are Outside of Your Home?

DS 111: How Do You Reconcile Different Needs for Affection?

DS 110: Does It Matter If We Don't Go to Bed at the Same Time?

DS 109: How Do You Create Intimacy with a Large Family?

DS 108: How Can I Help My Spouse Disconnect From Work and Connect With Me?

DS 107: How Can We Do a Sex Challenge If Our Levels of Desire Are So Different?

DS 106: How Do You Keep Sex From Becoming Routine During a Sex Challenge?

DS 105: Why Do a Sex Challenge Around a Holiday?

DS 104: What’s The Idea Behind a Sex Challenge?

DS 103: How Can Scheduling Sex Benefit Our Marriage?

DS 102: How Do I Handle My Wife’s Feelings Around Her Lack of Arousal?

DS 101: How Do We Maintain Our Sex Life in a Small House With Teenagers and a Baby?

DS 100: Am I Out Of My Mind For Changing My Mind About Having Kids?

DS 099: How Can We Keep Intimacy Alive When a Spouse Is Deployed Overseas?

DS 098: Is It OK for a Married Couple to Use Sex Toys?

DS 097: How Can We Do The Coffee Break If We Are Long Distance?

DS 096: How Do We Handle Cleaning Up After Sex?

DS 095: What If I Don't Know What I Like?

DS 094: How Do I Talk to My Kids About Sex?

DS 093: How Can We Be Sexually Intimate When We Don’t Even Sleep Together Because of a Back Injury?

DS 092: What is the Best Way to Lovingly Explain What I Would Like My Wife to Wear When it Comes to Our Sexual Intimacy?

DS 091: How Can We Make Our Words and Actions Our New Normal If We Didn’t Grow Up That Way?

DS 090: How Do I Get My Husband to Wear His Wedding Ring?

DS 089: How Can I Help My Wife Shut Off Her Brain in the Bedroom?

DS 088: Do You Combine Sensation Oil in Your Oral Sex Fun?

DS 087: Is It Wrong of Me to Want My Wife to Dress Skanky?

DS 086: How Do You Sleep in the Same Bed as Your Spouse When the Two of You Have Opposite Body Temps?

DS 085: How Can I Share the Importance of Maintaining One's Appearance After Marriage?

DS 084: How Do I Encourage My Husband to do Creative Things to Show His Love?

DS 083: Can Poor Body Image Affect a Woman’s Ability to Have An Orgasm?

DS 082: How Do We Juggle Different Work Schedules?

DS 081: How Do You Pull Off the Logistics of Morning Sex?

DS 080: How Do We Deal With Addiction In The Marriage?

DS 079: What Do You Do When You Get to the Point When You Have Nothing to Talk About Anymore?

DS 078: Is There Such a Thing as Falling Out of Love?

DS 077: How Can New Parents Make Sure They Are Still Putting in Time For Their Relationship?

DS 077: How Can New Parents Make Sure We Are Still Putting in Time For the Relationship?

DS 76: How Do You Stop Your Spouse From Lying?

DS 075: Is It Acceptable For Us to Have Naughty Sex?

DS 074: How Do You Find Love, Specifically a Godly Man, After a Divorce?

DS 073: How Do You Keep Your Sex Life Alive When You Are Trying to Conceive?

DS 072: How Does One Say That They Want More Sex Without Saying It?

DS 071: How Do You Know When You Are Ready to Have Kids?

DS 070: How Can We Possibly Get Along When it Seems Like We Have Grown So Far Apart?

DS 069: What Do I Do About the Resentment That I Feel Having to Constantly Clean Up After My Husband?

DS 068: What Do We Need to Consider When Planning a Vacation for Just the Two of Us?

DS 067: How Do We Share with Family That My Husband is Going to be a Stay at Home Dad?