POLARITY IS NOT FUNDAMENTAL TO MAN-WOMAN RELATING SUCCESS, AGREEMENT IS.

Many couples are hearing about polarized relating these days.  Many couples are coming into get trained in polarized relating.  All of which is great.

The piece that many couples are missing is : AGREEMENT!

Many long term couples are not in agreement with each other.

Many couples have been carrying complaints and resentments against each other for years.

Many couples can’t seem to come into agreement with each other over small, everyday matters.

Attempting to create Polarity in this ambiance of Disagreement is disastrous.

Polarity requires a higher degree of Agreement between people.

My advice to couples is, first and foremost create Agreement in your relationship.

Clean up your past resentments.  Let go of your anger.

If there has been breaking of agreements in the past and trust has been lost, do your utmost to repair that.

Come to a point where you can approve of your partner, where you find your partner right.

If you manage to accomplish that, you are almost home in regard to creating a happy and functioning relationship.

Even if you want to create polarity between the two of you, you need to be in Agreement that both of you in fact want to create Polarity in your relationship.

There is no bypassing Agreement to create Polarity.  It won’t work.  It will in fact prove disastrous.

Find Agreement.

Come into Agreement.

Agreement is the cornerstone of functional relationships.  

Agreement is fundamental.

Even Polarity is absolutely not possible without Agreement.

— Om Rupani

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