In this episode of Slightly Off Script, we dive into the controversial topic of purity culture and the True Love Waits movement. Join hosts Bethany and Andrew David Needham as they reflect on the good intentions, the problematic aspects, and the lasting impact of purity messages they encountered as teenagers in the 90s and early 2000s. From the teaching of biblical sexual ethics to the harmful overemphasis on virginity, we explore our personal experiences and share insights on what we've learned. We also discuss how to approach these topics with grace, truth, and a balanced perspective for the next generation. Thank you for your questions that sparked this meaningful and complex conversation!

 

ARTICLES WE REFERENCED

The FAQs: What You Should Know About Purity Culture

https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/faqs-know-purity-culture/

 

Critique Purity Culture, but Teach Sexual Ethics to Teens

https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/purity-culture-sexual-ethics-teens

 

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00:00 Welcome to Slightly Off Script

00:33 Bethany's Middle Name Story

02:19 Hair Pampering Weekend

03:50 Compliments and Insecurities

06:13 Introduction to Purity Culture

08:13 Defining Purity Culture

16:10 Critiques and Reflections

19:10 Personal Experiences with Purity Culture

25:02 The Grip of Pornography in Teenage Years

26:09 True Love Waits and Technical Virginity

26:47 The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly of Purity Culture

26:57 Positive Aspects of Purity Culture

30:52 Critiquing Purity Culture: The Focus on Virginity

36:46 Modesty and Judgment in Purity Culture

43:38 The Sexual Prosperity Gospel

47:56 Concluding Thoughts and Future Conversations