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S2E3 When Self-Care Feels Like a Luxury: Simple Self-Care for Overwhelmed Autism Parents


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Hey there, it's Karen. In this episode of NeurOrdinary, I dive into the critical topic of self-care, especially for us neurospicy autism parents.

I know firsthand how it feels to run on empty while juggling parenting, work, and everything in between. If you've ever thought, "Self-care? That's a luxury I can't afford," this one's for you.

We start by unpacking why self-care often feels out of reach, particularly for autism parents dealing with therapy appointments, meltdowns, and everything else that comes our way. 

One of my clients once said, "If I take time for myself, who's going to pick up the slack?" Sound familiar? 

You're not alone!

Society glorifies the idea of the sacrificial parent, leaving us to feel guilty for even thinking about our own needs. But here's the kicker: self-care isn't a luxury…it's about survival and resilience.

Through real-life stories of clients like Mike and Emma, I explore how small acts of self-care can make a world of difference. Mike discovered that practicing something as simple as a "reset breath" helped him handle his son's meltdowns more patiently. And Emma found a three-minute dance party could recharge her energy like nothing else.

I share practical tips to help you move past the guilt and integrate micro-moments of self-care into your daily routine. Think drinking your coffee while it's hot, taking a walk during your child's therapy session, or even a one-song dance party in the kitchen.

Remember, resilience isn't about never struggling but about having the strength to bounce back. Self-care is essential for that, and you deserve it. Be sure to check out my free Thrive in 5! SOS Toolkit for more strategies to help you recharge.

Thanks for listening/watching! Catch you next week.

* Please note: names used in this podcast may have been changed to protect the identity of my coaching clients and their children.


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Resources Mentioned in This Episode...

  • Grab your free copy of the Thrive in 5! SOS Toolkit here!

    • Martyr Mom Island - What Is It and How Can You Avoid It

      • What is an Empowered and Engaged Autism Parent

        • Revitalize and Recharge: Making Self-Care a Priority as an Autism Parent

          • From Anger to Empathy: Cultivating Emotional Resilience with Anger Releasing Meditation for Autism Parents


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            NeurOrdinaryBy Karen Kossow