Sex Chat for Christian Wives

By Bonny Burns, Gaye Christmus, J Parker, and Chris Taylor

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Four Christian marriage and sex bloggers chat about God's design for healthy and holy sexual intimacy in marriage..

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Getting Comfortable with Yo...

01.21.2020

forchristianwives.com About the Episode We understand the struggle wives often have with their body image and how it affects their sexuality. Today we want to revisit this topic to discuss how we can finally embrace our bodies and get comfortable ...

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01.21.2020 Getting Comfortable with Your Body forchristianwives.com About the Episode We understand the struggle wives often have with their body image and how it affects their sexuality. Today we want to revisit this topic to discuss how we can finally embrace our bodies and get comfortable ...
01.07.2020 Out with the Old, In with the New Today we're talking about letting go of something old in our marriages and taking hold of something new in 2020.
11.26.2019 Gift Guide Welcome to our Christmas episode! Listen as we share a little about ourselves. Plus, we thank you for listening by offering gift suggestions to build your lovemaking experience, your bedroom ambiance, and your connection with your sweetie. Sponsor Click HERE ...
11.11.2019 Support from Other Women In this episode, we talk about how to find support for our sexual struggles and how to use that support to help us grow. We’re joined by Ruth Buezis, founder of Awaken-Love Ministry and author of Awaken Love: The Truth ...
10.30.2019 Sexless Marriages About the Episode Around 20% of marriages are sexless. That is, the couple has sexual activity ten or fewer times per year. About ten years ago, a New York Times study indicated that 15% of couples haven’t had sex in ...
10.15.2019 Shower Power Today we’re talking about bathing and showering—not just having sex in a shower or bathtub, but the whole kit-and-caboodle. You’ll see what we mean once we get started.
10.01.2019 Listener Questions About This Episode Today's listener questions are: My husband is really interested in me swallowing during oral sex. I don't get it. I honestly don't want to work up to it; it's already taken a lot of effort just to ...
09.17.2019 Romance and Your Bedroom Today we’re talking about bedrooms, specifically the effect of your bedroom on the quality of sex and intimacy in your marriage.
09.04.2019 Higher Desire Wives About the Episode Today we're talking about higher desire wives. But whether your sexual interest is higher or lower than your husband, you’ll benefit from our conversation. Let’s begin by defining “higher drive wives.” Are these just wives who want ...
08.20.2019 Female Sexual Health About the Episode Today, we are discussing female genital and reproductive health. What we affectionately call "hooha" health. What are some issues that women have in terms of genital or reproductive health? Focusing on the vulva and exterior lady parts, ...
08.06.2019 Healing from Sexual Abuse Many of our listeners are survivors of sexual abuse, or we know someone who is. We’d like to talk today about how that trauma shapes survivors, how it affects their marriages, what healing looks like, and what we can do ...
07.23.2019 Sexy Talk We’re addressing the topic of how we talk with our husbands to create a sexier and more intimate atmosphere for the bedroom. What defines “sexy talk”? What does that look like? As Christians, what kind of sexy talk is okay ...
07.09.2019 Listener Questions It's time for listener questions! How do I practically and emotionally manage the messiness of love making? How do I talk to my husband about his premature ejaculation? Is it normal to feel self conscious about the way my vulva ...
06.25.2019 Vacation Sex We talk about why some women find it easier to enjoy sex on vacation, while others find it to be harder. And we explore ways to extend the definition of "vacation," so that it doesn't always require a lot of ...
06.11.2019 Myths We Learned from Pop Culture In this episode we talk about the myths the pop culture teaches us about sex.
05.28.2019 Orgasm It may be the pinnacle of pleasure, but lots of women still have questions about orgasm. Julie Sibert from Intimacy in Marriage joins us as we answer many of the orgasm questions we get from our listeners and readers.
05.14.2019 Listener Questions About the Episode We tackle listener questions about gifts for a virgin bride, sex positions, and predicting sex drive. My friend is getting married this year, and she is a virgin. What kind of gifts would you recommend to help ...
04.30.2019 Christian Sex Therapy Bonny talks with Christian sex therapist Dr. Jessica McCleese.
04.16.2019 Romance Today, we discuss romance. Is it overrated? 1. What is the definition of romance to you? 2. How does romance change over time? 3. How do you communicate with each other about romance? Sponsor From the Bible What does God ...
04.02.2019 Interruptions Today we’re talking about the challenge of interruptions, what form they take, and what to do about them so you can still have and enjoy sexual intimacy in your marriage. What are some common interruptions couples face? Why do interruptions ...
03.19.2019 Listener Questions About this episode We're answering your questions today! Is it okay for me to feel hurt that my husband masturbates during my period? Where can I find a Christian counselor? Should I initiate sex even when neither of us is ...
03.05.2019 Resources for Great Sex Today we’re talking about resources for your marriage, and specifically about resources to help you enjoy great sex in your marriage.
02.19.2019 2 Years of Our Best Sex Tips We'd like to thank today's sponsor: Everpillow by Infinitemoon Disclaimer: We were provided with a free product. If you choose to purchase this product, Sex Chat for Christian Wives podcast will receive a small commission from Infinitemoon. All opinions are ...
02.04.2019 Happily with Kevin A. Thompson Our guest today is Kevin A. Thompson, the lead pastor at Community Bible Church in western Arkansas, speaks at marriage and parenting conferences, and has authored three books, the most recent one titled Happily: 8 Commitments of Couples Who Laugh, ...
01.22.2019 49-New Year for Intimacy Today, we’re talking about creating a new year for intimacy in your marriage. Although we’re already a few weeks into 2019, there’s still plenty of time to make a plan for growing closer to your husband, strengthening your marriage, and ...
01.08.2019 48 - Rethinking Sexuality, with Juli Slattery Dr. Juli Slattery, president of Authentic Intimacy, joins us for this episode. Her most recent book, Rethinking Sexuality: God’s Design and Why It Matters, challenges us to think about sexuality in new ways. We talk with Juli about sexual brokenness, ...
11.20.2018 Lingerie Today on the podcast we’re talking about lingerie. What is lingerie anyway? That term covers both what we wear under our clothes and to bed. Or even just for a few moments before the outfit is summarily tossed onto the ...
11.06.2018 Episode 46: Listener Questions In this episode, we answer listeners' questions about struggling to initiate sex, catching your husband ogling another woman, having an orgasm during intercourse, and filming yourselves having sex.
10.23.2018 Foreplay Merriam-Webster defines foreplay as "erotic stimulation preceding sexual intercourse." But what is erotic stimulation? And why is it important for the sexual intimacy in a marriage?
10.09.2018 Having Sex When Kids Are Home It's been a while since the four of us had young kids, but today we're hosting special guest Keelie Reason, marriage and sex blogger at Love Hope Adventure, on the topic of making love when you still have kids in ...
09.24.2018 43-Dealing with Sexual Baggage Shannon Ethridge joins us to talk about dealing with our sexual baggage.
09.06.2018 42-Oral Sex Thanks for your support! Click here for GoFundMe. We know that oral sex can be a difficult subject in plenty of marriages. Is it okay for oral sex to be part of a Christian marriage? What about germs? What if ...
08.29.2018 41-Flirting with Your Husband GoFundMe - Thanks for your support! Author Charlotte Bronte said, “Flirting is a woman’s trade, one must keep in practice.” And yet, once we get married, we tend to forget how we flirted so successfully in our courtship. Or maybe ...
08.14.2018 40-Healing after Porn Discovery This episode concludes our “Conversation about Porn” 3-part series. The four of us are return as a group around the virtual kitchen table to help give some perspective and thoughts on moving forward in a marriage after pornography use is ...
07.31.2018 A Conversation About Porn (Part 2) Pornography affects so many marriages--even Christian marriages. Although porn can be a problem for both men and women, we're going to spend some time looking at a situation we know many of our listeners can relate to. Join us for ...
07.17.2018 Episode 38: A Conversation About Porn (Part 1) Join us for the first of three episodes about a wife dealing with her husband's pornography use. In this episode, Bonny chats with Chris about what she experienced in her marriage. Be sure to check out the show notes on ...
07.03.2018 37 - Periods and Sex In ancient Judaism, a woman was unclean while she was on her period. She could only return to the marriage bed 7 days after her period stopped and only then after going through ritual cleansing. So, that means opportunity for ...
06.19.2018 36 - Pregnancy and Sex It's been a while since any of us ladies were pregnant, but we remember. Mostly. So today, we’re tackling an important issue for many of y’all out there: sex when you’re pregnant. Because when you’re carrying a child, your body ...
06.05.2018 35 - Listener Questions We're answering your questions in this episode! How can a wife teacher husband about her body? What can a wife do if she is embarrassed about queefing? Is it possible to relax and enjoy sex when your kids are in ...
05.22.2018 34 - Food and Sex We've encouraged you to use all your senses to better experience sex, and that includes the sense of taste. The Song of Songs is filled with reference to both food and sex. Does that mean we can combine the two? ...
05.08.2018 33-Getting in the Mood 2 The four wives revisit the topic of "Getting in the Mood." How to rev up your engine in anticipation of lovemaking. Each lady brings her favorite idea to the table and they all discuss. Visit our website, forchristianwives.com, for more ...
04.23.2018 32-Advice for Our Newlywed Selves What do we wish we'd known when we first got married? In this episode, the four wives chat about what they wish they'd understood earlier in their marriages and what they would like to advise wives now. Sex is emotional, ...
04.09.2018 31-Listener Questions Again, we address listener questions. Specifically: I would love if you could discuss how to get OUT of the mood (for those of us with husbands who just aren't that interested). I also long to know what it's like to ...
03.26.2018 30-Lies Women Believe, Part 2 What are the lies that affect our marriages and limit our ability to enjoy sex and intimacy? And what are the truths that we need to embrace instead? We address two more lies in this episode: I am not enough. ...
03.12.2018 UPDATED 29-Lies Women Believe, Part 1 What are the lies that affect our marriages and limit our ability to enjoy sex and intimacy? And what are the truths that we need to embrace instead? The four wives talk about two lies in this episode: Sex is ...
02.27.2018 28-Male Anatomy Today, we’ll try to provide a tutorial on what we wives need to know about our husband’s body to have quality sexual intimacy in marriage. Let’s first break down the actual makeup of male genitalia. What are the various parts ...
02.13.2018 27-Celebrating One Year at the Kitchen Table Welcome to the party! We are celebrating. It is Sex Chat for Christian Wives’ first anniversary! (Woohoo! Cue noisemakers!!!) You have allowed us to chat with you for a whole year now. What have some of you had to say ...
01.29.2018 26-listener questions This episode features your questions about love languages, male-centered sexual expectations, sexual fantasies, and oral sex.
01.15.2018 25-Sex Is Funny Sometimes as Christians, we can focus so much on the deeper meaning of sexual intimacy in marriage, on its emotional and spiritual aspects, that we miss a sense of playfulness—or even downright humor. But we’re not going to miss that ...
01.02.2018 24-Health and Sex UPDATE UPDATED AUDIO FILE Taking care of your health can lead to better sex and intimacy in your marriage.

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