Sex Chat for Christian Wives

By Bonny Burns, Gaye Christmus, J Parker, and Chris Taylor

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Four Christian marriage and sex bloggers chat about God's design for healthy and holy sexual intimacy in marriage..

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Our Holiday Gift Guide - Se...

11.24.2021

About this episode We can’t leave off the year without providing another wonderful gift guide! We’ll link to others in the show notes, but today we’re focusing on gifts that speak not only to marital intimacy but specifically our five ...

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11.24.2021 Our Holiday Gift Guide - Sexy and Romantic Gifts for Couples About this episode We can’t leave off the year without providing another wonderful gift guide! We’ll link to others in the show notes, but today we’re focusing on gifts that speak not only to marital intimacy but specifically our five ...
11.09.2021 10 Best Things About Sex What are the best things about sex? We compiled a list of ten and hope it will inspire you to pursue better and deeper intimacy in your marriage. Sponsor Black Friday sale: 13% off store-wide! Visit Married Dance HERE. Also ...
10.27.2021 Sex Is For You Too We want you to understand that sex is for you too! This is an idea we discuss frequently in our episodes, but today it is our focus. Why do we even need to have this conversation? Why do so many ...
10.13.2021 Prayer and Sex About this episode 1 Thessalonians 5 tells us to rejoice always, pray continually, and give thanks in all circumstances. Today we're going to talk about what this means in relation to sex. How can we pray about sex or during ...
09.29.2021 On Fantasy, Focus & Feeling Betrayed (Listener Questions) We are down one host with Chris out today, but Gaye, Bonny, and I are here to answer your questions. If you have a question that you’d like us to address, head to our website, click the Ask a Question ...
09.15.2021 Sex When Life is Overwhelming Today we’re going to give you a little update on what’s happening with us, talk about what might be happening with you, and then discuss what that might mean for your sex life and your marriage. Sponsor Try discount code ...
08.31.2021 Pursuing Playfulness in Sexual Intimacy About this episode We are going to discuss practical ways to help you discover fun and playfulness between you and your husband. We talk a lot about being lighthearted during sexual intimacy, and today we want to spark your creativity. ...
08.17.2021 The Most Pleasurable Sex Positions About this episode Today’s episode has a tantalizing title, but what we’re really talking about are positions that work especially well for a wife, ones that don’t work, and positions might give you a better opportunity to orgasm. Let’s revisit ...
08.03.2021 Are You Compromising Too Much? (Listener Question) Today, we discuss a question that a reader submitted recently: How far is too far? How much do I compromise? I know I'm not perfect. I know I could have showed up more in the bedroom and have said as ...
07.20.2021 Accepting Your Body About this episode Today we’re talking about feeling comfortable in your body. This is a struggle for so many women, and it affects every area of our lives—inside and outside the bedroom. So, ladies, when we say “getting comfortable with ...
07.06.2021 The Sleep-Sex Connection What do we do in our beds besides sex? Sleep, of course! Today we’re going to talk about the relationship between sex and sleep. A recent study of over 3,400 women noted that those “who did not routinely get restful ...
06.22.2021 Your Sexual Self Today we are exploring the term “sexual self.” Your sexual self is an unfolding aspect of who you are, woven into the fabric of your being. What is identity and how would it relate to a sense of a wife’s ...
06.08.2021 Prioritizing Sex About this episode Today we’re going to talk about what prioritizing sex means, what it doesn’t mean, what gets in the way of it, and what it might look like in the lives and marriages of busy women. What does ...
05.25.2021 Evaluating Sex Resources, with Phylicia Masonheimer For many years, there were very few resources for Christians who wanted to learn how to have a healthy sex life. Now Christians can find more and more books, courses, and videos to help them. It's great to have choices, ...
05.11.2021 Improve Your Relationship to Improve Your Sex Life About this episode The marriage relationship overall can impact a wife’s sexual interest. Having a good marriage with intimacy in many areas can make it easier to want and enjoy sex. In this episode, we’re going to talk about things ...
04.27.2021 Listener Questions In this episode, we answer a few of your questions. “What are other ways to relax and enjoy my husband guilt free?” “I don't like feeling like it’s just sex.... Do I have a block? Was I wrong to be ...
04.12.2021 How Often Should You Have Sex Take the Survey As mentioned in the episode, Chris Taylor of Honeycomb & Spice is doing a survey on chronic illness and sex. We'd appreciate you taking the survey, so that she can address this subject well. Click the link: ...
03.30.2021 Take Time to Titivate To titivate is to make small enhancing changes or to make oneself look attractive. For some women, titivation is a daily habit. For others of us, it takes intention to remember to do it now and then. Join us as ...
03.16.2021 What You Need to Know About Sex There are a lot of resources about sex now, some great and some terrible. But often, resources have some important truths, some debatable points, and some myths. Today we want to talk about what really matters—the foundational points we want ...
03.02.2021 Enjoying Sex Sex therapist and educator Joyce Penner joins us to talk about learning to enjoy sex more. Why do some women have a hard time seeing sexual intimacy as a gift? And what can these women do to pursue the enjoyment ...
02.16.2021 100th Episode Today is our 100th Episode! On this special episode, we share what we do when we're not talking about sex, what ministry projects we're working on, and nearly half of a 100 sex tips list we ask our listeners help ...
02.02.2021 Valentine's Day Today we’re talking about Valentine’s Day. It’s coming up soon, and women feel all kinds of different things about it. Some women love it, some hate it, and some feel kind of ambivalent about it. And it plays out differently ...
01.19.2021 Overcoming Boredom in the Bedroom With people staying home more than ever these days, monotony is overwhelming our lives. However, there is one area of your life than can certainly move from monotonous to mind-blowing with just a few simple changes. Yes, ladies and gentlemen, ...
01.05.2021 Getting a Fresh Start with Your Sex Life Sometimes we need to hit the reset button with sexual intimacy. Maybe it’s not been going well lately. Maybe it’s never been good in your marriage. Maybe you only recently realized how important sexual intimacy is to your relationship. How ...
11.24.2020 35 Gifts for Your Marriage Bonny, Chris, Gaye, and J have a list of gifts that can help you learn, love, and laugh in your marriage! Sponsor Click to visit the website and shop! Also sponsored by Share the Soap. Learn more about their romance ...
11.10.2020 How Does Depression Affect Sex? Today we're going to talk about something that affects more than 264 million people around the world--depression. What IS depression? How does it impact our sex lives? How can faith help us during depression episodes? And what can we do ...
10.27.2020 Listener Questions We answer listener questions, specifically: Could you talk about the tilted uterus? I was told I have one and would like to know more about it. My husband is currently taking classes and working long days. He practically comes home ...
10.13.2020 Newlywed Tips, with Ngina Otiende Today, we have special guest Ngina Otiende of Intentional Today, and we're talking about sex and marriage for newlyweds.
09.29.2020 What Research Tells Wives About Sex, with Shaunti Feldhahn We are so privileged today to have Shaunti Feldhahn—social researcher, bestselling author, and popular speaker—pulling up a chair at our virtual kitchen table. Sponsor Click Here to Purchase or Learn More Click Here to Visit Our Sponsor Use coupon code ...
09.15.2020 Feeling More Sensual Today we’re talking about sensuality and how wives can feel more sensual. What does it mean to feel sensual? Why can it be difficult, and why does it matter? And what can you do to feel more sensual yourself?
09.01.2020 Getting Him to Touch You Where You Want It’s a common scenario we hear: She wants him to touch her body in various places, and he wants to focus on the “good bits.” So today, we’re going to talk about where you’d like to be touched, besides your ...
08.18.2020 4 Tips to Improve Your Sex Life We want to encourage you to just think of one thing you could do to improve your sex life. To give you some ideas, we're each going to share one thing we did to improve our sex life. Sponsor Click ...
08.05.2020 The Worst & Best Sex Advice We've Ever Received There is some really bad sex advice out there, most of it because the people giving the advice don’t know any better themselves. Today we’re sharing with you the worst sex advice we’ve personally received, but also the best sex ...
07.21.2020 Talk to Friends Our podcast is hosted by four friends talking biblically and authentically about sexual intimacy. How can you find your own friend group to talk with about sex? We've got some tips! Sponsors From the Bible Friends We rejoice and delight ...
07.06.2020 Making Space in Your Life for Sex Today we’re talking about making space in your life for sex. And whether you’re listening to this in the time of COVID, when we’re recording it, or at a time when things are more back to normal, you probably have ...
06.23.2020 Trying New Sex Positions About This Episode Is it time to expand your sexual position repertoire? We discuss going beyond "missionary" to include other positions, with a dose of reality on what's do-able and how to introduce new positions into your marriage. Sponsor Click ...
06.09.2020 Self-care and Sexual Interest Self-care is important—and it helps our sexual interest too! In this episode we talk about why and share some tips.
05.26.2020 Dating Your Spouse During Challenging Times We talk about date nights for challenging times, whatever your challenge may be. These are simply ways to plan some fun with your spouse – at home or in your community – that don’t cost a lot of money and ...
05.13.2020 Listener Questions May 2020 Today, we are answering some of your questions. How can I get over being sexually shy with my husband? How can I begin to get past the negative messages I learned about sex? How can I show my husband desire ...
04.27.2020 Doing the Best We Can Hang out with us as we ramble about life during a global pandemic, the reality of trying to continue intimacy despite circumstances, and where our heads and hearts are right now.
04.14.2020 Intimacy During Lockdown We're recording this during the Coronavirus global pandemic, but today we’re focusing on the positive with some practical tips for fostering intimacy during lockdown. What aspects of marital intimacy are most important during this tough time? How can sex be ...
03.30.2020 Maintaining Sexual Intimacy During a Crisis We share ideas to help you maintain sexual intimacy when life goes topsy-turvy.
03.17.2020 Breasts and How They Impact Female Sexuality Today, we are discussing breasts and how they can impact your sexuality. Song of Solomon calls them twin fawns of a gazelle and clusters of fruit. Whether your twins are gazelles, grapes, or grapefruit, we are going to delve into ...
03.03.2020 How to Ask for What You Want How can you ask for what you want, in marriage overall, and more specifically in the bedroom? This is something many women struggle to do and many women do not even know if they are supposed to ask.
02.18.2020 Listener Questions Today, we are answering some of your questions. How does a high desire wife navigate week-long business travel separation? What are some ways a nursing mom and mom of little ones can increase her desire to be sexual? How does ...
02.04.2020 Our Best Tips for Initiating Sex We all want to be wanted, and our husbands are no exception. Initiating sex is a great way to communicate “I want you” to your husband, but it isn’t always easy. In this episode we talk about why women might ...
01.21.2020 Getting Comfortable with Your Body forchristianwives.com About the Episode We understand the struggle wives often have with their body image and how it affects their sexuality. Today we want to revisit this topic to discuss how we can finally embrace our bodies and get comfortable ...
01.07.2020 Out with the Old, In with the New Today we're talking about letting go of something old in our marriages and taking hold of something new in 2020.
11.26.2019 Gift Guide Welcome to our Christmas episode! Listen as we share a little about ourselves. Plus, we thank you for listening by offering gift suggestions to build your lovemaking experience, your bedroom ambiance, and your connection with your sweetie. Sponsor Click HERE ...
11.11.2019 Support from Other Women In this episode, we talk about how to find support for our sexual struggles and how to use that support to help us grow. We’re joined by Ruth Buezis, founder of Awaken-Love Ministry and author of Awaken Love: The Truth ...

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