Engagement isn’t just planning a wedding—it’s preparing for a godly marriage. In this honest episode, we unpack why engagement feels like building and defending at the same time, how to spot spiritual warfare vs. normal conflict, and the premarital conversations every Christian couple must have (money, roles, sex & purity, spiritual life, vision). If you’re Christian, dating or engaged, and want to honor God, protect your purity & peace, and start marriage on a strong foundation, this is for you fam!You’ll learn:- Boundaries that keep you holy - How to recognize attacks vs. everyday conflict- The 10 truths about engagement most people won’t say out loud- The exact topics to clarify now so you don’t carry baggage into marriageCHAPTERS:00:00 – INTRO: Engagement = War (and Workshop)01:05 – Why this season matters more than the wedding03:00 – Build and defend05:10 – Spiritual warfare vs. normal conflict08:30 – Don’t build a wedding, build a covenant09:10 – Truth #1: Engagement is warfare with a ring on12:20 – Truth #2: Stop “testing the marriage” while single15:40 – Truth #3: Prepare for decades, not a day18:30 – Truth #4: You don’t need perfect—just humility & growth21:10 – Truth #5: It’s not too short—it’s too busy23:20 – Truth #6: Mentor vs. fan25:30 – Truth #7: Attack ≠ wrong path27:40 – Truth #8: Anxiety vs. discernment30:10 – Truth #9: Clarify money, roles, sex, spiritual life, vision33:30 – Truth #10: The goal isn’t marriage—it’s holiness36:10 – Mini-challenge + how to start this week37:30 – Closing prayer & CTA