The Crazy Ex-Wives Divorce Club

Stories from the Other Side with Rachel Sobel


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In this raw and real episode of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club, I sit down with award-winning writer, author, and speaker Rachel Sobel to talk about navigating the chaos of divorce and coming out stronger on the other side. We dive deep into the emotions, fears, and surprising realities of ending a marriage—and why it doesn’t just stop when the paperwork is signed.


🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways:

  • 🔥 Fear vs. Reality – Why the fear of divorce is often worse than the reality of it—and how to get past it.

  • 💡 The Business & The Emotion – Divorce isn’t just legal paperwork; the emotional work is just as (if not more) important.

  • 🛑 The Never-Ending Divorce – Why divorce doesn’t truly “end” when you have kids and how to co-parent without losing yourself.

  • 🌿 Triggers & Trauma – How to recognize and work through emotional triggers from past relationships.

  • Your Divorce Isn’t Your Identity – Rebuilding a life that isn’t defined by your ex, your past, or your pain.


  • We talk about:

    • 00:00 Introduction 

    • 01:46 Navigating Divorce: Emotions and Survival

    • 04:05 The Business and Emotional Sides of Divorce

    • 06:16 Co-Parenting Realities and Challenges

    • 10:14 Managing Triggers and Emotional Healing

    • 16:56 Effective Communication and Boundaries

    • 22:42 Embracing a New Perspective on Relationships

    • 23:44 Coping with Triggers and Emotional Responses

    • 25:02 The Journey of Self-Healing and Strength

    • 27:42 Reflecting on Past Relationships and Self-Forgiveness

    • 30:01 The Impact of Divorce on Personal Growth

    • 38:08 Navigating Divorce with Children


  • The After Party: Looking to connect with other women on the divorce journey? Snag your spot at the next After Party: https://www.thecrazyexwivesclub.com/theafterparty


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    Learn More About This Week’s Guest: Rachel Sobel

    Rachel is an award-winning writer, author, speaker, do-over wife, mom to two girls, short-order cook, laundress, lunch packer, boo boo kisser and chauffeur. She was awarded Romper's 2020 People's Choice Award at Mom 2.0 and is a two-time finalist for Parenting Blogger of the Year in the South Florida Blogger Awards. She's the creator and cohost of the lifestyle podcast, Friends Without Benefits with co-host Dale McLean, the in-arena host of the Miami Heat and host of their 2023 All Star Game. She has work published in two anthologies, including Jen Mann's New York Times Best Seller, I Just Want to Hang Out with You. Rachel has written for HuffPost, Romper, Today Show Parents, PopSugar, ScaryMommy, Filter Free Parents, MommyNearest,

    Insider, She's Got Issues and more. She has appeared on NPR, The Doctors, The Tamron Hall Show and The Kelly Clarkson Show (she is still not fully recovered from Kelly calling her hilarious on national television). Rachel lives in South Florida with her second (and final) husband, her two feisty daughters and a giant labradoodle (aka love of her life), Biggie.


    Connect with Rachel

    • Instagram: www.instagram.com/whineandcheezits 

    • Facebook: www.facebook.com/whineandcheezits 

    • TikTok: www.tiktok.com/rachel.sobel.writes 


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