In this episode of the Becoming You podcast, I list the ten types of people you need in your life!

But before we hop into it, let’s discuss who you don’t need in your life.

It’s pretty simple: If they’re negative Nancys, habitual doubters, perpetual naysayers, and shamelessly judgemental—in other words, if being around these people sucks the energy out of you, it is time to lovingly cut them out of your life.

It goes without saying that the types of people you surround yourself with are so essential to how you live your own life.

With this foundation laid, let’s talk about the ten types of people you need to bring into your life!

#1: Space Holders

This is the type of person with whom you can be totally, unashamedly yourself around when you’re at your lowest points.

They “hold space” for you; that is, they create an environment in which you can express yourself authentically, and they will not want to fix your problem or judge what you’re going through.

#2: Expanders

An expander is someone who inspires you to become a better person than you were yesterday. They show you what is possible.

You’ll probably need different expanders for different facets of your life. You may have one for your health and fitness goals, another for your finances, and yet another for business.

#3: Believers

We’ve all had those moments when we lose belief in ourselves, whether regarding a particular goal, our career, our role as a parent or partner, or even life overall.

Because losing belief in ourselves at one point or another is a universal experience, it’s vital to have someone by your side who continues to believe in you regardless, who sees your strengths even when you don’t in that moment.

#4: Healers

From doctors to psychics to therapists to masseuses to Reiki practitioners, it’s so essential to have a crew of healers.

Ultimately, we are here to do the work of healing. I believe that the human experience is all about learning to love and to heal. That’s it.

#5: Supporters

This is the type of person that cheers you on endlessly and celebrates the heck out of you without any jealousy, comparison, or resentment.

#6: Coaches

A great coach challenges you to go beyond the edge of your perceived limits in whatever they’re coaching you on.

They call you out on your B.S. and they reflect back to you all the ways you play small in life.

#7: Energizers

The polar opposite of Debbie Downers or energy vampires, energizers have that contagious quality about them where you find yourself with a spring in your step after you part ways.

When you hang out with an energizer, you have a lot of fun, they make you laugh, and you simply feel better just because of who they are.

#8: Spiritualists

This is the type of person that expands your beingness by showing you that you are a part of something bigger than this world.

This is someone who believes in the metaphysical and unseen forces of nature. They’re really tapped into the higher consciousness of life.

#9: Adventurers

The adventurer always puts themselves out there to try something new. They’re incredibly spontaneous and courageous.

Like energizers, these are all qualities that rub off and inspire us to become better than we are and to do more of what we desire.

#10: Great Hairstylists

Wouldn’t you agree that there’s nothing like a great haircut to make your day better?

And on that note, I’ll add that it’s worth it to have somebody in your life that inspires you to get out of your comfort zone when it comes to styling.

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