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The Cost of Saying Yes When You Really Want to Say No
Have you ever found yourself saying yes, not because you wanted to, but because it felt easier than facing the discomfort of saying no?
In this deeply honest episode of The Filosophy Podcast, I share a personal moment where I almost betrayed my own values under the mask of kindness. What started as a simple ask for help became a powerful lesson in boundaries, self-responsibility, and nervous system awareness.
You'll hear me unpack:
Why intuition speaks before your brain catches up
How people-pleasing, scarcity, and the “rescuer” mask show up
What it really means to honour your values when no one else understands
How to pause, reset, and respond in alignment
📌 Need help learning how to pause and regulate before you override your truth?
⚠️ Content Note: This episode includes a reference to a situation involving domestic violence (not discussed in detail). Please listen in a way that feels safe and supportive for you.
By Fionna FindleyThe Cost of Saying Yes When You Really Want to Say No
Have you ever found yourself saying yes, not because you wanted to, but because it felt easier than facing the discomfort of saying no?
In this deeply honest episode of The Filosophy Podcast, I share a personal moment where I almost betrayed my own values under the mask of kindness. What started as a simple ask for help became a powerful lesson in boundaries, self-responsibility, and nervous system awareness.
You'll hear me unpack:
Why intuition speaks before your brain catches up
How people-pleasing, scarcity, and the “rescuer” mask show up
What it really means to honour your values when no one else understands
How to pause, reset, and respond in alignment
📌 Need help learning how to pause and regulate before you override your truth?
⚠️ Content Note: This episode includes a reference to a situation involving domestic violence (not discussed in detail). Please listen in a way that feels safe and supportive for you.