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Good Looking Loser - the Original 'Hardcore' Self-Improvement Community. The community includes in-depth discussion on how to get laid, beat anxiety/depression, get ripped in the gym, get rich (from online business) and a "Nothing in Moderation" approach to various other subjects that mainstream shys away from. Our community values PERSONAL EXPERIENCE over theory and is one of the most proactive on the entire Internet. Come by and say hi!

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12.05.2016

I'm a successful entrepreneur (many times over). Take your first year expectations and cut them into 1/3. Have realistic 1 year expectations so you don't underachieve and quit. This insight might be the most important one you ever hear if ...

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12.05.2016 My #1 Tip For Aspiring Entrepreneurs (The Reason That Everyone Else Quits) I'm a successful entrepreneur (many times over). Take your first year expectations and cut them into 1/3. Have realistic 1 year expectations so you don't underachieve and quit. This insight might be the most important one you ever hear if ...
11.07.2016 Who Are Your True Friends In Life- (Good News - Friendship Standard) How I have evaluated my relationships since age 25 - http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/friendship-defined-true-friends-vs-fake-friends
11.07.2016 4 Female Piss & Shit Stories (Short Stories From My Life) Short stories: 1) Chris is not listening to girl take a shit (just looks that way) 2) Girl tries to pee on me while I'm having sex 3) Beach week girl never flushes the toilet 4) Girl takes a 10lb ...
11.07.2016 TSA Made Me Strip Naked For Them (Airport Security Story) GLL Short Random Video. I had to get naked for TSA. I think I'm on a watchlist. correction: I bought the burka last year http://www.goodlookingloser.com
11.07.2016 My Most Embarrassing Weakness (&Cheating On Tests & Childhood Stories) [Random Video] Random Video - My biggest weakness, how I cheated on tests (probably 100x in high school, 50x in college) and some other random stuff http://www.gll-getalife.com
03.23.2016 How To Beat Approach Anxiety By Being A Man (My Final Thoughts On Approach Anxiety) Here's the Post & Click 'Show More' for table of contents http://www.goodlookingloser.com/how-t... 2:00 Approach Anxiety Doesn't Exist (Introduction) 4:00 Can Everyone Beat Approach Anxiety? Who is Successful? 8:00 Beat Approach Anxiety by Simply Having Some Self-Respect 16:50 Beat Approach Anxiety ...
08.07.2015 How to Get Laid In College (If You Aren't Part of the Establishment) Podcast w/ Hunk Good Looking Loser and Hunk discuss how to Get Laid in college if you are an 'outsider' who isn't part of the major social scene.
07.20.2015 How To Get What You Want (Everything Happens For A Reason And It's All Your Fault) How to Get What You Want (Most Of The Time) http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/how-to-get-what-you-want-most-of-the-time
07.16.2015 How To Pick Up Girls Efficiently (If You Don't Want To Hit On Lots Of Chicks) "How to Pick Up Girls Efficient (If You Don't Have the Time/Desire To Hit On Lots Of Girls" http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/picking-up-women/how-to-pick-up-girls-efficiently Good Looking Loser - Self-Improvement For Douchebags
06.03.2015 How Getting Laid Should Actually Fit Into Your 20's (Prioritizing Women So You Don't Have To) Prioritize Getting Laid for a little while so you don't sweat women/sex ever again. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/picking-up-women/getting-laid-how-it-should-actually-fit-into-your-20s Good Looking Loser - Self-Improvement For Douchebags
04.17.2015 The Key to Being Productive is STAYING Productive -The Golden Rule (Success Principle #12) The key to being productive is to stay productive and quickly refocus when you get distracted - http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/success-principle-12-the-real-golden-rule-how-to-be-productive "I Must Do the Most Productive Thing At Every Given Moment"
04.17.2015 Role Models Are Good But Accessible Mentors Can Change Your Life (Success Principle #11) #11 from Good Looking Loser's Success Principles - http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/success-principle-11-have-accessible-role-models-and-follow-these-rules 00:00 Why Mentors are better (Part I) 26:00 How to actually find Mentor (Part II)
03.30.2015 Do What You Want - The Mentality To Live By - It's The Correct Decision 100% Of The Time Chris discusses why trusting your instinct is a good mentality to live by. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/confidence/dont-be-reactive
03.22.2015 Success Principle #8 - Not Trying Will Be Your Biggest Regret Failure won't eat you up inside, but not trying will. http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/not-trying-will-be-your-biggest-regret
03.22.2015 Success Principle #7 - Nothing In Moderation "Everything in Moderation" is a favorite saying of underachievers. http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/nothing-in-moderation
03.22.2015 Success Principle #6 - Be A Winner, Not A Perfectionist (What I Learned In 10 Days of Law School) http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/be-a-lawyer I went to Law School for about 10 days (stayed in San Diego for a good 4 months after) and I actually learned something helpful.
03.21.2015 Success Principle #1 - Secret To The Universe (Take Action) Good Looking Loser's Non-Mainstream-ish spin on "Taking Action", the secret to the university.
03.19.2015 The Comfortable Mediocre Life Of The Undersexed Male (Why Most Guys Won't Get Much Action) Most blame a lack of work ethic, opportunity or talent for underachievement. The real reason is far more pathetic. For age 20 and 30-something men, 21st century mediocrity isn't particularly uncomfortable. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/the-comfortable-life-of-the-undersexed-male Good Looking Loser - Self-Improvement For Douchebags
03.09.2015 Lonely Saturday Nights - The Hardest Nights Of My Life (Comfortable Depression) From 2002-2006, I spent almost every Saturday Night alone, by myself, in my apartment, wondering where I went wrong and if better days really to come, blog post -- http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/get-laid/remembering-those-lonely-saturday-nights-when-i-was-by-myself-comfortable-depression "Lonely Saturday Nights" (Me, Myself and Reality Living in a ...
03.04.2015 Life Or Death Test (Good Looking Loser Success Principle #9) My bi-weekly ritual to make sure I have somewhat of a decent life. Blog post - http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/success-principle-9-take-good-looking-loser-s-life-or-death-test
03.04.2015 Insecurity Is Your Bestest Friend (Good Looking Loser Success Principle #10) Insecurity is the best motivation when you are trying to change your life. Use it to your advantage. http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/success-principle-10-mr-insecurity-is-your-best-friend
02.27.2015 How To Ask A Girl To Sleep With You (Socially Acceptable) Here's 2 socially acceptable ways to ask/suggest sex that emotionally healthy girls will respond well to. 4:10 and 7:25 Common sense, but seldom used by guys that look for dating/sex advice. Applies to online dating too, at a lower success ...
02.27.2015 Can Everyone Beat Approach/Social Anxiety? Unlike some goals, beating approach anxiety is doable and you know it. Not accomplishing this "doable" major goal in your 20's can be very deflating. It may just effect how you see yourself for the rest of your life. I ...
02.26.2015 Is Approach Anxiety Optional? (La Résistance) Your pride and moral victories will help you beat Approach Anxiety. Approach Anxiety is not a choice but approaching always is. http://www.goodlookingloser.com
02.16.2015 The Most Important Concept On GLL - DON'T TRY TO BE SMOOTH The Most Important Concept On GLL - DON'T TRY TO BE SMOOTH by Good Looking Loser
02.13.2015 How To Talk To Girls - Make Statements Instead Of Asking Questions (CEO -Frame - -Mindset) How To Talk To Girls - Make Statements Instead Of Asking Questions (CEO -Frame - -Mindset) by Good Looking Loser
02.08.2015 Your Insecurities Everyone Else's Normal (You Aren't a Big Mess) Your Insecurities Everyone Else's Normal (You Aren't a Big Mess) by Good Looking Loser
01.31.2015 How To Know If You Are Successful With Women How To Know If You Are Successful With Women by Good Looking Loser
01.29.2015 The Only Thing That Really Matters For a Business to Be Successful (and the stuff that doesn't) Good Looking Loser discusses the ONLY THING THAT REALLY MATTERS to have a successful business. http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-paid/entry/the-only-thing-that-really-matters-to-have-a-successful-business-and-6-things-that-dont-as-much
01.17.2015 Are You Sexually Available? (The REAL Law Attrcation) The flip-side of Sexual Availability. Are You Really In?
01.12.2015 How Kratom Changed Everything (Podcast with Chris Lenahan/KingKratom) Chris Lenahan talks about how he and Kratom fixed his shit.
01.06.2015 How To Still Pickup Girls If You Are Nervous (Comprehensive Nervous Guy Game Discussion) How To Still Pickup Girls If You Are Nervous (Comprehensive Nervous Guy Game Discussion) by Good Looking Loser
01.06.2015 Why Texting Girls Is Worthless And What You Should Be Doing Instead Why Texting Girls Is Worthless And What You Should Be Doing Instead by Good Looking Loser
01.06.2015 What To Say If Girls Or People Are Mean To You What To Say If Girls Or People Are Mean To You by Good Looking Loser
01.05.2015 Swag Factor (Status - Coolness) 2 - 3 Chris discusses 'Swag Factor' (coolness) and how your social status/skills impact your success with women. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/more/archive/entry/swag-factor-explained/
01.05.2015 Swag Factor (Status - Coolness) 3 - 3 Chris discusses 'Swag Factor' (coolness) and how your social status/skills impact your success with women. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/more/archive/entry/swag-factor-explained/
01.05.2015 Swag Factor (Status - Coolness) 1 - 3 Chris discusses 'Swag Factor' (coolness) and how your social status/skills impact your success with women. http://www.goodlookingloser.com/more/archive/entry/swag-factor-explained/
12.29.2014 Sense Of Entitlement (Advanced Confidence) 5 - 5 Good Looking Loser discusses "A Sense of Entitlement" (Advanced Confidence) http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/entitlement/sense-of-entitlement-2
12.29.2014 Sense Of Entitlement (Advanced Confidence) 4 - 5 Good Looking Loser discusses "A Sense of Entitlement" (Advanced Confidence) http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/entitlement/sense-of-entitlement-2
12.29.2014 Sense Of Entitlement (Advanced Confidence) 2 - 5 Good Looking Loser discusses "A Sense of Entitlement" (Advanced Confidence) http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/entitlement/sense-of-entitlement-2
12.29.2014 Sense Of Entitlement (Advanced Confidence) 3 - 5 Good Looking Loser discusses "A Sense of Entitlement" (Advanced Confidence) http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/entitlement/sense-of-entitlement-2
12.29.2014 Sense Of Entitlement (Advanced Confidence) 1 - 5 Good Looking Loser discusses "A Sense of Entitlement" (Advanced Confidence) http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/entitlement/sense-of-entitlement-2
12.24.2014 How 'Bendenherover' Fixed His Entire Life in 2014 Good Looking Loser talking to Brian (bendenherover) about his major success in 2014. 0:00 Welcome 'bendenherover' aka Brian (not Scotty) 2:00 What was he like just one year ago? 3:25 Bendenherover weighed just 120 lbs a year ago (5-10 height) ...
12.22.2014 What Books To Read If You Hate Reading Books I hardly ever recommend any self-improvement books. They are too long and you will only remember, at best, 10% of what you read. You will apply even less. Read these instead - http://www.amazon.com/mn/search/?_encoding=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&field-keywords=tom%20butler%20bowden&linkCode=ur2&tag=lifestyle0bc-20&url=search-alias%3Daps&linkId=MP2G66J465IKFGED Here is my full post on this ...
12.22.2014 Why Some Bodybuilders Suck With Women, Why They Shouldn't and How To Fix It How Bodybuilders Suck With Women, Why They Shouldn't and How To Fix It - http://www.goodlookingloser.com/tags/tag/lonesome-bodybuilder-series Table of Contents 0:00 Make 2015 your year - this resource might be a helpful start. 2:50 Who is the 'Lonesome Bodybuilder'? 6:40 Gym life ...
12.15.2014 Success Principle #4 - Be A Hypocrite Not A Follower (Lifestyle) http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/be-a-hypocrite-not-a-follower
12.15.2014 Success Principle #4 - Be A Hypocrite Not A Follower (Lifestyle) http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/be-a-hypocrite-not-a-follower
12.15.2014 Success Principle #2 - Work HARDER NOT Smarter http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/work-smarter-not-harder
12.15.2014 Success Principle #3 - Define Success Before You Spend Years Chasing It http://www.gll-getalife.com/get-success/entry/define-success
11.22.2014 How to Get Married and Not Get Burned (GLL w/ Mike from Danger & Play) Mike discusses prenuptial agreements and what you need to know (and ask your lawyer).

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