Winding up at a Malay wedding in a village close to the Batu Caves, dressed in Adidas running pants and a zip hood ... it's not how I thought the afternoon would pan out after joining a local climbing group in Kuala Lumpur and completing one of the most challenging climbs of my life. But that's the Malaysian tradition of hospitality, boleh ("can-do"), an attitude of a carefree spirit. It's there waiting for you even at the top of one of Malaysia's best-kept secrets.